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Have you ever had an explosion of feelings and had to stop for a minute so you could separate them all and figure out the motives or reasoning behind each one?
I'll go into a bit more detail. Yesterday my boyfriend (ENTP) and I became "official." Now I really have almost no relationship experience but he has plenty of it. And so, since this is all completely new for me, it was really scary. And yet extremely happy. And exciting. And almost magical. I've never had someone so head over heels in love with me and I've never felt that way about anyone else. So all of yesterday (we spent the whole day together), my mind was whirring constantly, all of these feelings would pop into me like popcorn before I had time to figure them out. It was extremely exhausting!! I feel similarly when I'm performing in a play or having a very deep conversation with a friend.
Has anyone else had this experience? Is this what being a feeler is?? How do you all deal with it??
I'll go into a bit more detail. Yesterday my boyfriend (ENTP) and I became "official." Now I really have almost no relationship experience but he has plenty of it. And so, since this is all completely new for me, it was really scary. And yet extremely happy. And exciting. And almost magical. I've never had someone so head over heels in love with me and I've never felt that way about anyone else. So all of yesterday (we spent the whole day together), my mind was whirring constantly, all of these feelings would pop into me like popcorn before I had time to figure them out. It was extremely exhausting!! I feel similarly when I'm performing in a play or having a very deep conversation with a friend.
Has anyone else had this experience? Is this what being a feeler is?? How do you all deal with it??