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Hello, hello, hi. So, I am an INFP, and seem to have fallen into an almost-relationship with one of you ENFJs.
Just saying, I can truly back up any claims that this pairing is, "what dreams are made of" and other cheesy sayings.
BUT I'M CONFUSED. Obviously. And I would really, really appreciate some ENFJ (probably some of the male ENFJs) insight. I think this could probably span beyond, but here is my individual dilemma:
So, I met this ENFJ, and immediately, we hit it off. I typically don't click with people right off the bat, but I'm talking about insane chemistry... our sense of humor, our outlook on morals, what we want to do when we're older; our conversation spanned over about 20 different topics (he later said himself, "Well, what do you expect... when we talk it's like a feeding frenzy, so if you really want something said, you better fit it in there. FAST." lol) and when he left I was seriously reeling. There was one problem, though: he was visiting family in the state I live in... he himself lives on the opposite side of the country.
Anyway, we had exchanged Skype, and for the past month, every day, we talk for hours. And it spans from relatively superficial when we're in goofy moods, but can easily turn into deep conversations. He is always asking me questions about myself, and constantly compliments me (and when I shrug them off he just goes, "YOU'RE SO CUTE" and keeps going until my face is in my hands and I cannot move lol) but also does mention quite often about how sociable he is, and about how many girls like him, but how he doesn't like them back. He says he's the type that wouldn't even date a girl if he didn't know 100% that he really loved her.
He focuses a lot of attention on me when we speak and we joke around all the time about how "when we're married" and etc... The first conversation we ever had he asked me to marry him so it's been kind of a running joke.
My question is, I really like him... But I cannot tell if he is just being sociable and flirty, (which seems to be his usual state, as so many girls seem to be falling over him -_-) or if he actually likes me. It's hard to tell, especially because this is mostly via the internet. Oh well :/
Thoughts? THANK YOU FOR READING MY SPIEL.
Just saying, I can truly back up any claims that this pairing is, "what dreams are made of" and other cheesy sayings.
BUT I'M CONFUSED. Obviously. And I would really, really appreciate some ENFJ (probably some of the male ENFJs) insight. I think this could probably span beyond, but here is my individual dilemma:
So, I met this ENFJ, and immediately, we hit it off. I typically don't click with people right off the bat, but I'm talking about insane chemistry... our sense of humor, our outlook on morals, what we want to do when we're older; our conversation spanned over about 20 different topics (he later said himself, "Well, what do you expect... when we talk it's like a feeding frenzy, so if you really want something said, you better fit it in there. FAST." lol) and when he left I was seriously reeling. There was one problem, though: he was visiting family in the state I live in... he himself lives on the opposite side of the country.
Anyway, we had exchanged Skype, and for the past month, every day, we talk for hours. And it spans from relatively superficial when we're in goofy moods, but can easily turn into deep conversations. He is always asking me questions about myself, and constantly compliments me (and when I shrug them off he just goes, "YOU'RE SO CUTE" and keeps going until my face is in my hands and I cannot move lol) but also does mention quite often about how sociable he is, and about how many girls like him, but how he doesn't like them back. He says he's the type that wouldn't even date a girl if he didn't know 100% that he really loved her.
He focuses a lot of attention on me when we speak and we joke around all the time about how "when we're married" and etc... The first conversation we ever had he asked me to marry him so it's been kind of a running joke.
My question is, I really like him... But I cannot tell if he is just being sociable and flirty, (which seems to be his usual state, as so many girls seem to be falling over him -_-) or if he actually likes me. It's hard to tell, especially because this is mostly via the internet. Oh well :/
Thoughts? THANK YOU FOR READING MY SPIEL.