If you're single for an extended period of time I can see you at the same level of introversion, but expressive through other avenues (ie: these forums, blog, etc). I think you'll crack if you stick with this lifestyle for too long though, I believe you're naturally a people person.1. Do you think as time progresses in her life, Izzie will be more extroverted/ more introverted or still the same in terms of that aspect?
Sometimes I wonder if I should send you a full sized poster of me that you can put on the ceiling above your bed. I'll be the first and last thing you see every morning and night.
As for you,
If you're single for an extended period of time I can see you at the same level of introversion, but expressive through other avenues (ie: these forums, blog, etc). I think you'll crack if you stick with this lifestyle for too long though, I believe you're naturally a people person.
I like it when my partner and I are ''in our own world''If you're dating, and naturally close, I imagine you'll have strong moments of being introverted -together- (lazy days together, escapist- retreats, and so on).
Fuck *embarassed*but for the most part I imagine you'll go out a lot more. I can see you as a bit of a show off, and when you're happy that means everyone else needs to be too.
Yes I think I have been obnoxious to a lot of people.I wouldn't be surprised if you're the type to light a fire under everyones belly, but sometimes to a point of being obnoxious (unintentionally).
Interesting, why do you think I'm a people person?
Interesting, why do you think I'm a people person?
You seem to be good at juggling people, you have a natural curiosity that a single person can never really appease (as they may have other commitments and won't always be available). Thus you'll strike up another person in that meantime. You're kind of a social-whore.
For comparison purposes, I can strike up a convo with just about anyone, but sometimes I may just be placating. The only exception is if I catch a scent of something interesting from somebody, then I'll probe just to see what I can find. For the most part though, I'm mostly apathetic and uninterested -- meaning I'm not a true people person.
You on the other hand, will meticulously follow an ant to its mound just through sheer fascination, if that makes sense.
I can be surprisingly quiet and secretly analytical, to be honest.
Debatable part of Lad's analysis
1) I'm a people person/ social whore
Huh? I'm not sure about it because;
I tend to be happier and show my true self more often with a few friends I click with rather than in large groups,
I don't talk that much in social gatherings and parties unless there are people I feel comfortable with,
In outside reality I often project an image of appearing trusting and naive but I don't trust easily.
So overall, Lad, I think you are very good when it comes to taking up cues from speech and language,etc.. You are very speedy in that, but you need to pick up from the not so obvious cues more often :crazy:
And why is this all about me?
Question 2 is about Lad!!! *points at him*
Cute izzie, but you went by your definition of what a people person was and not by my definition, which I mentioned earlier. As a refresher, both you and I can interact with people, but I -generally- have different feelings behind it, often apathetic and uncaring, thus I'm not -really- a people person.
You have an exploratory personality which tries to seek an understand. You generally thrive on social interaction, but that doesn't mean you're the life of the party either. I wouldn't be surprised if you have a tendency to smother people that you have close ties with. Nonetheless, your -desire- for interaction makes you a people person.
In cruder terms,
there are sluts and there are closet sluts. The former will go out and hook up with anyone and do virtually anything, while the latter will usually just share that side with people they're close with. In the end though, they still have a strong sexual side and that's why they still share a similar title even though they project it in different ways.
I am trying to break out of (fight from) my old patterns of being too clingy though (as apparent a gozillian times in this forum)..I don't like my old self that much. I have to stand on my own more often from now on.