I'll take the bait. :tongue: I am a lover/giver of blunt honesty so that just confuses me. I think I may be overly sensitive at times, but I'm less concerned about criticism of others (everyone can kiss my arse, really)...I beat myself up pretty nicely...no need for an outside source.However, talking to INFP's online .. They scare me to death. There is a neediness in their approach which i don't like. They are also too sensitive. Now give me an ENFx and i am a happy bunny.
I personally like people who are honest, blunt and to the point.
This is so exactly like me, especially the bold parts. Spot on! Great post.Well obviously i can't speak for everyone (Don't you just hate saying that sometimes ) but i will always initiate contact with someone who has caught my eye and i am pretty direct about it. Yeah the sharing feelings bit for me rings true, but that is just because i worry about being vulnerable to others. I am so self reliant and strong but being hurt does not feel good, when i am ready to open up then i will.
Oh no, quality is always better than quantity. Yes, i have very few friends but a hell of a lot of acquaintances.
Sometimes people's opinion matter, but only those closest to me .. Everyone else can piss off.
I am very straightforward in that if you say something to offend me, i will back off, reflect and speak to you about it at some point. I need to see if there is any truth in it or just a perception. I have realised from experience that going off at the deep end does not benefit anyone. Lol.
Yes, we love smelling the roses
Surprisingly, you haven't said anything to offend me .. So no backlash for you.
Ehem. Just found my true MBTI type which is ESFJ. Sorry but I have never been a 'random hook-up', where do we come off as being a random hook up anyways.Just because YOU think that we're sexually attractive doesn't mean you get to degrade us, by calling us 'random hook-ups' simply because of what you feel in your pants. You may as well call us 'cum buckets/dumpsters'. Sorry my own personal morals won't allow me, myself to be a hook up, nor will I engage with a guy who enjoys random hook-ups. Most guys who feel that I am a hookup makes me ill and kind of scared. I'm not sure what crap experience you personally had with an ESFJ, do not define us with a humiliating, demeaning 'award of the year' as best hook up. A only being sexual objects not worthy of love or respect that human beings deserve, that's kind of disgusting.With that judging by the description(some different on other sites) of ESFJ:ESFJ's seem like the best random hookup.... not relationship material. They seem very sexually attractive and I think we are both pretty good in bed. But other than that.... it's just so uncomfortable. I think I'd rather go for ENFJ's. At least they are sexually attractive AND relationship material.