When I'm reading up on the differences between w3 and w5 I can't help but side more with w5. However, I'm pretty charismatic for an INFP and highly enjoy contact with other people. I know I am an Enneageam 4 INFP so that is not my question. Its: Does it automatically mean for an E4 INFP who is social, assertive etc. to be a 4w3? Or does, at the end, all this not have to mean anything and a 4w5 can be just as "out-there" as a 4w3?