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Do we just love to flirt more than any other type? Or are we just more social.
To be honest I love getting to know people and have been described as a 'The Honey pot' before, because I can get anything out of anyone.
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I would say, as much as I don't want to admit it, yes. ENFP's are my favorite and least favorite type to be around, I love them so much , and I hate that I love them! Gaahhh what a paradox :/
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Flirting is not sexy. And flirting with a lot of people is disgusting.
 

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........did you do that on purpose to piss me off? *sigh* I hope so...... I'll bite, *know *right.
I ment sometimes I piss myself off and other enfps sometimes I like myself and other enfps I have the same paradox despite being ENFP
 

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Flirting is not sexy. And flirting with a lot of people is disgusting.
Hey, aren't you the one that's still all butt hurt over his ENFP ex? Good thing your resentment doesn't show up in posts. :wink:

Nah, we're not the most sexy. That banner belongs to ESTPs...And the ENTPs that tell us they're so sexy.
However, physically I don't think ESTPs necessarily have anyone beat. They have some serious charm, though.

Lol @ ENTPs "tell us they're so sexy". Bwahahaha! :laughing:
 

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Flirting is not sexy. And flirting with a lot of people is disgusting.
I disagree that flirting with many people is disgusting, but I have been told this by other types before, especially other Is.

My INFJ friend asked me to explain it to her once, and I don't entirely know how--it's just been a natural and somewhat involuntary part of the way I interact with many people. It's something used to do when I was much younger without even thinking about it. Now at least I do it by choice! I typically only flirt if I genuinely like someone and want to know more about him/her, and I typically don't turn on the charm if it's not sincere. I don't mean for it to be misleading, although I know sometimes it is.

I do agree that flirting is not necessarily sexy and doesn't necessarily make someone sexy . . . but it definitely CAN be sexy. I think a lot of E-types interact with people this way (I know a couple of ENTPs and ENTJs who are very flirtatious as well), but I think ENFPs also tend to be colorful in the way they dress and to have vibrant or exuberant personas when they are interacting with others. All of these things combine, I think, to make the ENFP personality type a sexy and attractive one.
 

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Do you find that when you do meet someone you like the charm just seems to switch off, and that natural 'way with words' you had just diaspears? I find that, it's soo annoying when you know you could have been getting his number in less than a minute! exasperating!
 

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Do you find that when you do meet someone you like the charm just seems to switch off, and that natural 'way with words' you had just diaspears? I find that, it's soo annoying when you know you could have been getting his number in less than a minute! exasperating!
Oh yes, all the time. However I find my behavior varies with the I-E spectrum. If I'm interested in an E, I find myself in your exact situation. However when I'm interested in I's I get into my natural rhythm a lot easier.
 

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I think Jewish ENFPs are the sexiest out of all the types. *Sigh*
 
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