Core values and life plans are exceedingly different.. the only way I see this working is with an ESTJ man and a INFP woman meeting in church.
INFP living hell.. ESTJs are great, but they do nut understand INFPs for the life of them. I say this because of the countless ESTJ <--> INFP relationships I have actually seen, and they were not too healthy. ESTJs fail to see from the INFPs point of view and remain oblivious to the fact and this makes the INFP very unhappy, thus, they will become overly emotional which inflates the problem even more. I apologize if this is a little brash, but when it comes to INFPs, ESTJs are the least understanding people on the face of the planet..These types are obviously complete opposites, so, are they a good match?
I hate classing people into their MBTI and blaming the fact that their relationship didn't work soully on their personality. I believe any type can work, so long as they love each other.Well, let's look at socionics, which has intertype relations. ESTJs are ESTjs or ESTps in socionics. INFPs are INFjs or INFps in socionics. ESTj + INFj or ESTp + INFp = duality, two halves of a whole, the ideal psychological relations. ESTj + INFp or ESTp + INFj = conflicting, two ends of the spectrum, the worst psychological relations. So, either ESTJs and INFPs in MBTI can be best friends, or worst enemies. o_______o
Try being close to your socionics conflictor, though...you'll run into TONS of trouble!I hate classing people into their MBTI and blaming the fact that their relationship didn't work soully on their personality. I believe any type can work, so long as they love each other.