um I erased it cause i felt like I was revealing too much to people I don't really know. Yea I guess it might be that my name has to do with running away.... and i said nvm in this thread.ThisIsWhereIRunAway,
did you erase your first message because you realized there was a similar thread in content right below yours on the forum? Your answer to this question might clear up the misunderstanding that you might have caused AvaAdore
yup, that was why AvaAdore said what he did.um I erased it cause i felt like I was revealing too much to people I don't really know. Yea I guess it might be that my name has to do with running away.... and i said nvm in this thread.
Ohhh woops. K thanks for the welcome. mk ill check that out.yup, that was why AvaAdore said what he did.
Now that you explained why you did what you did, it should be all clear :crazy:
And, just so you know, there is another thread similar in content to this thread right below yours You can always post in there if you feel up to it. The thread is titled: "do you feel good about your body".
By the way, I have noticed that you are a newbie. Welcome aboard :crazy:
"Looks" is a trap honestly. It goes both ways --- if you don't feel like you have them, you feel like it's the cause of other people rejecting you - and if you do have them, it could lead to the wrong person attracted to you and even find yourself manipulated. [But of course, it's a personal thing in the end].Wonder if I could revive this thread and make it about "if ENFJ's consider looks to be important in finding their significant others?"
I do believe in "attraction" at first sight and that it might the first step, a tiny step, for me to fall in love with someone...though I am not sure because this hasn't happened to me yet (just speculating and dreaming.lol)
But no matter how good looking...I will not fall for them if the atmosphere they had around them (their personality/spirit) didn't fill me with good emotions. This "atmosphere" means way more to me than "looks".
I'm glad that you added the last line.I have only once been in a relationship with someone where I felt like my physical attraction was almost as strong as my mental attraction (the relationship being my current one :3).
Lmao. For some reason I'm picturing people thinking that I sent really random pics at first, like first my eyebrow, then my pinkie, then some random patch of skin... XDI'm glad that you added the last line.
'Cuz reading this, I was like :shocked: but when I saw the last para, I was like
Also, I have to add that being a demisexual, I've found that I have to be in love before I can be physically attracted to someone - so it does have an impact on how I perceive looks as well. I go for personality first before I even consider looks.
As for my current relationship, I was in love before I even saw a full picture of my love