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Was hoping I could ask for a list, but I realized how hard that would be to do out of thin air.
So I think this INTJ guy I'm friends with might be interested in me, but not too sure. This guy has well developed Fi so its especially difficult to tell.
Ive made a checklist.
Please check "X" the box if you've noticed yourself do these things when interested in a friend or if you generally think these are signs of an INTJ being interested. You guys are good at hiding how you feel so its been hard for me to read this situation.
Playful Teasing [ ]
Goofing Around/ Joking [ ]
Doing Little Favors [ ]
Inviting To Places/ Activities [ ]
Admitting To Finding You Attractive [ ]
"You & Me" Mentality (e.g. "Smart like you and me", "we're close friends", "we dont talk about superficial things" ) [ ]
Talks About Feelings [ ]
Wants You To Get Deep [ ]
Looking Over At What You're Doing [ ]
Wants You To Speak More [ ]
Touches Your Stuff [ ]
Standing Too Close [ ]
Complimenting Personality [ ]
Asks About Your Thoughts Around Relationships [ ]
Intense/ Strong Eye Contact [ ]
In Group Conversations, Directs Eye Contact Towards Person Of Interest Despite Them Not Having Initated Or Involved [ ]
.....
These are just signs of being friends [ ]
The second last one is specific I know.
If you guys know any more signs of How An INTJ Friend Might Act Around You If Interested, please let me know. For all I know, these could be just signs of him trusting me as a friend which would be fine too. So please let me know. Thanks
So I think this INTJ guy I'm friends with might be interested in me, but not too sure. This guy has well developed Fi so its especially difficult to tell.
Ive made a checklist.
Please check "X" the box if you've noticed yourself do these things when interested in a friend or if you generally think these are signs of an INTJ being interested. You guys are good at hiding how you feel so its been hard for me to read this situation.
Playful Teasing [ ]
Goofing Around/ Joking [ ]
Doing Little Favors [ ]
Inviting To Places/ Activities [ ]
Admitting To Finding You Attractive [ ]
"You & Me" Mentality (e.g. "Smart like you and me", "we're close friends", "we dont talk about superficial things" ) [ ]
Talks About Feelings [ ]
Wants You To Get Deep [ ]
Looking Over At What You're Doing [ ]
Wants You To Speak More [ ]
Touches Your Stuff [ ]
Standing Too Close [ ]
Complimenting Personality [ ]
Asks About Your Thoughts Around Relationships [ ]
Intense/ Strong Eye Contact [ ]
In Group Conversations, Directs Eye Contact Towards Person Of Interest Despite Them Not Having Initated Or Involved [ ]
.....
These are just signs of being friends [ ]
The second last one is specific I know.
If you guys know any more signs of How An INTJ Friend Might Act Around You If Interested, please let me know. For all I know, these could be just signs of him trusting me as a friend which would be fine too. So please let me know. Thanks