If you met yourself. Would you be attracted to you? Honestly. Think about it. Don't say what people want you to hear. Don't say what you think you should say. Don't say what would make you feel confident. Say it as truly as possible. If you recorded a video of yourself and saw all of who you are.... would you be attracted to yourself?
Why do I ask?
I have noticed from numerous people that they don't "understand" why anyone would like them. Sure they know about their good points. They know they are confident and good looking and caring and _____ fill in the blank. But they still don't understand the attraction... the feeling of attraction. I hear from many people "why would anyone be attracted to ME"? I'm "annoying". What have you. And you don't have to say these really negative things to yourself to be not attracted to yourself.
Why do I ask?
I have noticed from numerous people that they don't "understand" why anyone would like them. Sure they know about their good points. They know they are confident and good looking and caring and _____ fill in the blank. But they still don't understand the attraction... the feeling of attraction. I hear from many people "why would anyone be attracted to ME"? I'm "annoying". What have you. And you don't have to say these really negative things to yourself to be not attracted to yourself.