ToHello everyone!
Well first i would like to say that i am new here so bare with me as i get used to th environment now for my reall post well for a while now I have had something on my mind
that is lately many people have been telling me that i am intimidating or ateast i was or am when someone first meets me. Yet no matter who i ask they all cant put their finger on what exactly it is about me that makes or made them feel this way. The only thing most people say might be the reason is that im strongly appinionated. For the most part most of them say it isn't bad to b intimidating as it means you are strong and can get what you want. I guess i think atleast this all has to do with the fact that i tend to have somewhat two different personalities combined which is common in infps from what i hear. And by that i mean i am a somewhat depressing yet still bubbly happy cute person. You know a bit negative at times and seriouse yet quirky and fun at others. I have considered maybe that is what kind of scares people the fact that they really dont know how to take me in. Some people hate it when i am happy and say its 'creepy' (those would be people who are tyipically more dark) others say im 'too depressing' those would be the happy people. I guess u can never please everyone. i guess the point o this thread is just to see if anyone can relate? I know this has been kind of long but i have really noticed this lately in fact i have so many stories that go along with it. But i think ill let you guys reply for a bit as i think i have written enough as is for now lol
Well first i would like to say that i am new here so bare with me as i get used to th environment now for my reall post well for a while now I have had something on my mind
that is lately many people have been telling me that i am intimidating or ateast i was or am when someone first meets me. Yet no matter who i ask they all cant put their finger on what exactly it is about me that makes or made them feel this way. The only thing most people say might be the reason is that im strongly appinionated. For the most part most of them say it isn't bad to b intimidating as it means you are strong and can get what you want. I guess i think atleast this all has to do with the fact that i tend to have somewhat two different personalities combined which is common in infps from what i hear. And by that i mean i am a somewhat depressing yet still bubbly happy cute person. You know a bit negative at times and seriouse yet quirky and fun at others. I have considered maybe that is what kind of scares people the fact that they really dont know how to take me in. Some people hate it when i am happy and say its 'creepy' (those would be people who are tyipically more dark) others say im 'too depressing' those would be the happy people. I guess u can never please everyone. i guess the point o this thread is just to see if anyone can relate? I know this has been kind of long but i have really noticed this lately in fact i have so many stories that go along with it. But i think ill let you guys reply for a bit as i think i have written enough as is for now lol