It could be when the other person feels that connection with us and tries to get closer than we expected them to get. It's like "Oh, hey! I didn't mean it that way... I was just being friendly." Then they tend to get upset because they thought "we were so close." And then it's either awkward or depressing. From my experience, anyway.Oh well, in my experience it causes an almost instant connection with a new person getting them interested in you, feeling comfortable, and willing to talk. Could that be so bad?