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This thread is a variation of the other thread, and the perspective is very different. Basically:

Is oral sex necessary, if you are going to have THE relationship? Can there be a relationship for you, lasting the rest of your life, without oral sex?

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Spin-off! :laughing:

I'm going to say, I hope not but I'm sure I can find a way to compromise if I get everything else. :wink:
 
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Oh wow. Um... I guess, but I really enjoy doing that. ...so yeah.
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I couldn't care much less about oral sex on me (just not my thing, if they like it, then fine), but I'd still have a few issues.

First, I wouldn't want to date some hopeless vanilla, unless they were interested in breaking out.

Second, I like giving... so yeah :tongue:
 

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I suppose this would fit within the realm of things that could be possible.

But I wouldn't exactly be happy about it, either as the non-giver or non-receiver.
 

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I wouldn't prefer it, but I would be okay with it, as long as we were sexually intimate in other ways. It wouldn't be a huge frustration for me and there would be no resentment; maybe just a slight initial disappointment.
 

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I am too uptight to allow oral sex to be done to me often, but I still give oral from time to time. I haven't had a problem with it...

I prefer penetration to oral...
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I could, but id rather have a partner that open to this. It just too much fun.
 
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All I can say is that it would suck. Or, rather, it would NOT suck, and that would be precisely the problem.
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what are you talking about, I'm legendary when it comes to oral sex, of course I must have it, in both directions :laughing:
 

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I could live without oral sex quite easily. My rule when it comes to oral sex (although I've never actually had sex of any kind before) is that if she performs oral sex on me, I'll perform oral sex on her so that we both give and take.
 

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Awww! That's a sweet idea. The only serious problem I can see with it is this: what do you do if she likes giving, but doesn't like receiving, and you like receiving? Do you let her do it, or does it still feel one-sided even though she gets pleasure out of it?
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Awww! That's a sweet idea. The only serious problem I can see with it is this: what do you do if she likes giving, but doesn't like receiving, and you like receiving? Do you let her do it, or does it still feel one-sided even though she gets pleasure out of it?
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I have no idea, to be honest.
 
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