This thread is a variation of the other thread, and the perspective is very different. Basically:
Is oral sex necessary, if you are going to have THE relationship? Can there be a relationship for you, lasting the rest of your life, without oral sex?
I wouldn't prefer it, but I would be okay with it, as long as we were sexually intimate in other ways. It wouldn't be a huge frustration for me and there would be no resentment; maybe just a slight initial disappointment.
I could live without oral sex quite easily. My rule when it comes to oral sex (although I've never actually had sex of any kind before) is that if she performs oral sex on me, I'll perform oral sex on her so that we both give and take.
Awww! That's a sweet idea. The only serious problem I can see with it is this: what do you do if she likes giving, but doesn't like receiving, and you like receiving? Do you let her do it, or does it still feel one-sided even though she gets pleasure out of it? Posted via Mobile Device
Awww! That's a sweet idea. The only serious problem I can see with it is this: what do you do if she likes giving, but doesn't like receiving, and you like receiving? Do you let her do it, or does it still feel one-sided even though she gets pleasure out of it? Posted via Mobile Device
I figured it was a joke, too. I'm not really all that concerned about whether I get to perform oral sex as an expression of desire, although it would be nice. Posted via Mobile Device
I've never been in a relationship before. However, if I am willing and happy to go down on the man I am in love with, it would upset me that he would not have the urge to return the favour out of love for me and the desire to see me pleasured. It's a bit of a put-off..
I prefer giving over receiving. I could probably have a relationship without it, but...might get kind of boring and all. So I'd rather have it included.
I really couldn't have a relationship without sex though. I'm much too sex-needy for sex-phobic men.
I don't think it's needed...but I certainly like it. It helps me get going, and is always a great gift to the guy. Posted via Mobile Device
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