Sounds like you choose people you get clingy for really carefully, but you do get clingy about the ones you actually form the bond with. I hope I'm not off here.Not as a rule, although there are times i feel clingy. For example if i invest a lot of time and energy into someone, i find it easier to let my guard down and become vulnerable. My guard is usually up 23 -7, so if i'm having a needy moment, i really care about you. It is a strange kind of feeling really, one i don't like to touch often. I don't generally form deep bonds with random people, so i don't attach myself in a clingy way.
Well, not really. I guess i should have said - if and ever i do have clingy moments, it will be with someone i feel really close too. My desire for space is much greater than being needy, so if i become needy, i'm probably looking for affection-love and attention. I think its safe to say we all experience some sort of needy behaviour at times, as long as it doesn't consume us to the point we can't function on our own. I'm quite independent so that wouldn't happen too often. I like acting like a baby at times, and love when i get affection from the right person.Sounds like you choose people you get clingy for really carefully, but you do get clingy about the ones you actually form the bond with. I hope I'm not off here.