I was dating an ESTJ female and she was very gentle with me surprisingly, we both are very different but very similar at the same time and when together we might not have something to say all the time but we feel safe,we trust eachother deeply and I have shown her that I care about her,I am very loyal and never play games. She told me that I have a heart of gold,that im remarkable etc...but then why does her "spirit" not feel at ease with me as she said? Im confused. I have shown her how bold I am to love her and make commitment without being clingy, creepy or selfish (insecure). I gave her a simple gift lastnight after an awesome date, but she told me "My spirit hasnt felt at ease about us"...then whats that mean?