This is the first time I'm starting a thread myself...and damn, I can't help but talk about what I most desire...
I'm a very introverted person, but I find myself reaching out to others, hoping to find someone I connect with deeply. Only a few times in my life have I found such a person, but all of them have drifted away (and in one case, committed suicide).
Do soulmates exist? Are you looking for one?
I found my soul mate, but I wasn't even looking for one - I had given up believing in soul mates many years ago. Someone in a thread on the INFJ side said something to the effect that she would like one, but knows she isn't ready yet, she needs to grow more. I have often told my soul mate that we had to wait so long to find each other because I had to grow up first.
Rouge Eagle is right about that fear of what if something happened to them - and for me most likely it is more about when something happens to them, as he is a bit older than me. I will have to cross that bridge one day, but being with him is more than worth it.
I'm not looking for it. I'm secretly waiting for it.
And well.. who is soulmate for me? Isn't that someone with who you connect with very well and who understands you that well as well!? I believe in a thing like that..
But is it better to be actively looking for someone, or to just let them come to you? People always tell me that you find love when you're not looking for it or least expecting it. If that's the case, then there's no hope for me because I'm always searching XD
It's all I think about.