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As an INFP, I hate it when...

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... people give me this weird remark/look when I do or say something that is different from what they all consider as "normal".

Anything you get frustrated about etc. :bored:
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Oh the woes of living in a world dominated by ISJs :frustrating:
... people give me this weird remark/look when I do or say something that is different from what they all consider as "normal".
When I forget how much time has passed, where I am, and when I am busy destroying schedules as easily as breathing. :crazy:

But what can you do?
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When someone interrupts me while I'm deep in thought listening to music.
When people talk down to me because I don't have all the material possessions that they have and they tell me I have to, "start thinking about my future."

Sometimes I'll bother to argue, other times I'll just think about their miserable lives and wonder why they want to convert me, usually coming to the conclusion that misery loves company.

Doesn't matter, they'll brag about me when I'm gone.
Teh biggest one for me is when people defend chold molesters. I go into a rage of anger at that one.
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Yeah, there are people who spread "news" about you, and suddenly someone else who doesn't know me is judging something about me which I-don't-know-what but could be a bad thing :frustrating:
When people judge me when they don't know me.
I hate it when someone tries to be smart in an area they know nothing about.
I hate it when people make no effort whatsoever to observe and collect information, but are still quick and ready to take action and pass judgment. I get even further annoyed with those same people when they take issue with me for actually trying to asses and understand things instead of just being all go go go. :dry:
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i love these moments! they remind me that i'm free of the structured world, even when it would probably be a little more convenient not to be :laughing:
When I forget how much time has passed, where I am, and when I am busy destroying schedules as easily as breathing. :crazy:

But what can you do?
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Absolutely. I can't stand it when someone pulls an assumption out of their arse.

"Oh, you're one of those people that..."

Actually, no I'm bleedin' well not!

Friends I've known for over a decade do that to me all the time. On one hand it annoys me because I'm thinking "How can you say that when you know me so well?" and on the other I'm thinking "Shit, am I really so confusing to people that even my closest friends don't 'get' me?"
When people judge me when they don't know me.
I think that the people who right now have known me for like 3-4 years don't really get me either. Maybe we are just total contrast... :bored:
Friends I've known for over a decade do that to me all the time. On one hand it annoys me because I'm thinking "How can you say that when you know me so well?" and on the other I'm thinking "Shit, am I really so confusing to people that even my closest friends don't 'get' me?"
I hate when people call themselves "open minded" but are only "open" to what they already agree with and immediately judge others who go against them without hearing their perspective.

I hate when I work hard to get to know the deeper aspects of a person to find out there truly are none. =P
I hate it when people are clingy and make me feel I have to give them constant attention...Ah!
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I really hate it when ESXJs go on and on about how I 'should be' extroverted, 'what's wrong with you?' Um, I'd rather be alone right now, thanks. I think it's mostly the 'you should' whatever because 'everybody should.' Even stupid stuff. I should care more about the style of clothes I wear/size and decor of my home/etc...
As an INFP

I hate it when I feel so shy.

I hate it when I feel so empty inside.

I hate it when people can't seem to understand the idea I like to be alone sometimes.

I hate it when I feel the need to be perfect.

I hate it when I have trouble looking people eyes.

I hate it when I feel there is nobody that understand me. :sad:
EDIT: meh, nevermind. now that i think about it, i don't really feel this way.
I hate having to repeat myself and being interrupted.
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i hate it when others make fun of someone...

... or when people try to pry into my thoughts and feelings...
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