I was talking with my ENTJ boyfriend about why he loved me. I felt somewhat disturbed because in my momentary PMS day I felt like he didn't really love my sentimental, thoughtful side. To me it felt like he was loving some outlandish characteristics of mine that didn't really mean anything to me. So we talked about it and this is what he told me;
- You make me laugh (According to him, I'm the first girl to do that)
- You are really cute at times (Meant it personality-wise)
- You're rather passionate
- You like to talk a lot
- You like to chill at home not doing much (instead of going out partying or such)
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- But the fact that you're a deep person, isn't why I love you.
How would those reasons make you feel? Is it important for you WHY your partner loves you, or does it matter as long as he loves you anyway? My boyfriend used to tell me that he gets to decide why he likes me and it shouldn't matter to me. Does it matter to you? Should you partner realize that your INFJness makes you even more lovable?
Or something like that, I hope you understand what I'm trying to say... ^^'
- You make me laugh (According to him, I'm the first girl to do that)
- You are really cute at times (Meant it personality-wise)
- You're rather passionate
- You like to talk a lot
- You like to chill at home not doing much (instead of going out partying or such)
----
- But the fact that you're a deep person, isn't why I love you.
How would those reasons make you feel? Is it important for you WHY your partner loves you, or does it matter as long as he loves you anyway? My boyfriend used to tell me that he gets to decide why he likes me and it shouldn't matter to me. Does it matter to you? Should you partner realize that your INFJness makes you even more lovable?
Or something like that, I hope you understand what I'm trying to say... ^^'