I think my brother is onto something with the enneagram.Got yelled at, today, at work, because I did not easily understand something (they wanted me to put something in a box but I didn't know this box had a specific name, so I wanted to put it there but I didn't know if it was the right place...pretty funny moment, actually) and because I didn't "respect" the holy car and almost ""damaged it"" because I'm too brusque, even though I'm pretty sure it was resistant enough. Was pretty pissed off as I was getting yelled at, thought this guy really disliked me and internally insulted him. Yet I couldn't say anything : I can hardly yell back at other people, instead, I simply have a pissed off look on my face but can't even look at them in the eyes. I really suck at confrontations.
Do you also get angry and annoyed when people are mad at you, instead of just feeling "ashamed"? Do you ignore those who're mad at you and try to do something else in order to relax (alone, ideally)? Do you easily forget and "forgive"? I'm trying to figure out what it says about my feelings according to this bloody theory.
It's worth it, especially the tritype seems useful in the given context I imagine. But, yeah, it takes a bit to do the test.
Personally, I'll take the critique if I screwed up.
If not: angry indeed, the bossman can expect some of his own medicine right then and there.