Bored and lazy
ISFJ, 9 something?
AgreedHow close are you guys?
I generally don't like anyone who isn't very close to me to get too naggy and prodding (funny considering people think SFJs are the naggy ones ) but I'd just keep watch from a distant and maybe check in every so often? "Hi, how are you feeling now?" (to show you took on board what was said and that you're there if they want to talk about it). It's a difficult one because you don't want to intrude too much but you don't want to do nothing and we're very slow to open up so we need to feel sort of welcome before we do. So just a little check in every so often so it's not too much for them and causes them to close up?
If that makes sense lol.
Being too pushy makes me back off
And if you make it sound like you're obviously checking up rather than just being there for them they might think they've forced you into doing it
Why are we so difficult? Lol