I have never had the need to post to a forum considering everyone I know is "easy" to solve. I have come to a roadblock with a new acquaintance with whom I believe I can have an awesome friendship with. I met him at work and its interesting to me how he cares about everyone else; another interesting observation was he seems to require attention from everyone he bumps into. I'm quiet but its usually because I'm thinking on trying to figure everything out. Initially, the dynamic was energetic. Now, it seems like my ENFJ acquaintance is getting bored of me. When we ride in the car together, I find it difficult to strike up a conversation. How can I improve the flow of communication? A bit ago, I was unsure if I wanted to pursue a friendship but my feeling counterpart (INFJ) helped me realize that I do care about my ENFJ acquaintance. He's going to be my roommate soon and I don't want to live with a stranger. Even though I am an INTJ, I have developed my Fe enough to understand others. My ENFJ acquaintance, on the hand, is beyond my scope of understanding. I can foresee a powerful dynamic between myself and ENFJ, but I can't connect. Any advice or experiences to help me understand would be greatly appreciated.