I've met more males than females who seem to totally lack common sense.I can't stand stupid women (most women), I get horribly frustrated around stupid people in general, but women are all that stupider on average and we all know attractive-smart girls all have boyfriends so I just end up riding solo.
Personally, I'm absolutely attracted to them on a physical level. If I've had enough to drink (see other topic forum) then I'd probably deal with whatever lame conversation arises.OK yea it's nice to say you are real mature and stand up guys who don't care about physical. I'm talking about when a girl is sexy but you know she is probably an idiot/gossip/etc. you can honestly tell me you aren't attracted to them on a physical level?
Are you trying to defend your gender?That was in response to nodi, not the OP, but I suppose it is different anyway.
I was actually doing the exact same thing as you :crazy:I am simply saying from my personal experience (which is most likely subjective) that I have encountered many, many dumb women.
this is good insight. i've had a similar experience.The other thing is, say you have a girl who is physically attractive and also very intelligent. I seem to really come alive, to show my best qualities around these women, and hence become more attractive myself. I come alive NATURALLY. Whereas, if they are only physically attractive, I can't muster up my best qualities. Part of me wants to, but at the same time there's that inner part that just refuses to. This can be beyond frustrating b/c it leads to apathy. Not to brag, but I'm an attractive, smart guy. I've been told I could be a model. But b/c I have a hard time finding that perfect blend, I either have to settle (which I can't stand doing) or choose my solitary INTP world.
I don't know, I do my best to avoid them, which is quite easy because you can recognise one a mile away.how do you guys deal with the fact that many many girls are very appealing physically and yet you know your interests and personalities will clash?