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when it comes to other P.cafe members, have any of your sent a personal message to them and it gone unanswered? Then, later you noticed they are thanking you and quoting you in other posts? I find this weird... You can thank me and quote me, but not answer a message??? ODD
 

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Maybe he/she just does not want to have that personal of a connection. Who knows? Try quoting them and including your thoughts/feelings? :kitteh:
 

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With the ability to ignore the private message, but go on to read, quote and thank a post.. is kinda rude. I wanted know if any had this happen to them.
Who knows, maybe they forgot about it, maybe they didn't know what to say, could be anything. I'd rather not form expectations of people I don't know on the internet. ;)

That's not to say that I agree, it's kinda rude. I hate being ignored.
 

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Who knows, maybe they forgot about it, maybe they didn't know what to say, could be anything. I'd rather not form expectations of people I don't know on the internet. ;)

That's not to say that I agree, it's kinda rude. I hate being ignored.
I don't expect anything from internet folks. Eh, its just my thinking out loud...on a forum...LMAO
 

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Yeah, totally with the others who said people forget. I intend to reply to pms, and emails... and it doesn't happen. If you're messaging infps/enfps, that could be the case!

Being ignored sucks, though. Big time.
eh its not the ignoring part that im annoyed by. We've all ignored someone. however,eh....idk no more lol
 

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This has happened to me before on here. I PM'ed someone, wanted to get to know her better and chat and just see if we could form a connection. She seemed like a really neat person and we had a lot in common from what I read of her forum posts. In the end, she never replied back. It kinda sucked at first, but it is the internet. People move and jump around all the time on it lol. It can hurt a bit when you would like to get to know someone better/make a friend and they don't reciprocate the interest :(.
 

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It's happened to me before. Sometimes the conversation gets too invasive or the other person is just uninterested with having an interaction but want to remain in amicable terms so they continue thanking/quoting their posts. It's actually an indirect way of saying "I don't think we can be friends but I still appreciate you around the forums." It's all about reading in between the lines with INFPs.
 
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