Hello, I had a realization today that kind of frightens me but also makes a lot of sense. I was thinking about all of my friends today as a whole, and I realized that every single one of my friends are broken in some way. All of them with deep trust issues/pain that derives from being abandoned, betrayed, and/or abused from a young age. It seems like the more "broken" a person is, the closer I get to them. Basically everyone I'm confident enough to call a friend is so "broken", they would be considered 'toxic' by most people; but I feel like I truly understand them so I just cant help but love them (in the friendly way). I think Im attracted to these types of people because maybe psychologically I relate to them? Or maybe I enjoy trying to put them back together because Im incapable of putting myself back together? What are your guys' thoughts?