My brothers are younger and we all know each other, as we have the same parents. Not much in common between us.I'm sorry to hear that. I have a sister and brother from my dad's side that I met recently for the first time. I was both excited and nervous about meeting them. How do you feel about potentially meeting your brothers and sister? Do they know about you as well?
You're not wrong. It seems like year after year, more and more people get antisocial. Keep trying anyway. Most people are still pretty social once you break the ice with them. Especially women. Don't let your instincts get in your way. Fear of rejection is to a social person what fear of death is to a warrior. A hindrance. It's there, but you have to keep moving forward anyway. If you're comfortable starting conversations, keep doing it at your convenience. When you're in a queue at the supermarket or post office. When you're on the bus or tube to work or whatever. When you're taking a break and enjoying a coffee and there's a woman sitting by herself a couple tables down. When you're on a plane on your way to a holiday or business trip.
My sister doesn't know me I just know about her from a family secret that was shared and left me feeling upset about it, this whole time I had a sibling that I didn't know about, mind you this was before my brothers were born. Maybe I'll go out there someday to find her, let her know she has a brother who is looking for her.