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I found this description pretty much sums me up down to a "T", thought you other ENTP's might find it interesting. Covers everything from Career, home life, dating, sex, mid life and more.



ENTP

Personality

ENTP’s wish to exercise their ingenuity in the world of people and things. Found in about five out of every hundred people, ENTP’s extravert intuition; thus they deal imaginatively with social relationships as well as physical and mechanical relations. They are very alert to what is apt to occur next, and always sensitive to possibilities.
ENTP’s are good at analysis, especially functional analysis, and have both a tolerance for and enjoyment of the complex. Usually enthusiastic, ENTP’s are apt to express interest in everything, and thus are a source of inspiration to others, who find themselves caught up by the ENTP’s enthusiasm. This type is delighted over many things and so is easy to please, often showing the effervescence of their NF counterpart, the ENFP. The ENTP is the most reluctant of all the types to do things in a particular manner just because that is the way things always have been done. They characteristically have an eye
out for a better way, always on the lookout for new projects, new activities, and new procedures.

ENTP’s are confident in the value of their pursuits and display a charming capacity to ignore the standard, the traditional and the authoritative. As a result of this open attitude, they often bring a fresh, new approach to their work and their lives. The ENTP is a keen judge of the pragmatics of both the social and the mechanical, and may become expert at directing relationships between means and ends. Where the introverted NTP sees design as an end in itself, the extraverted NTP sees design as a means; the end is the invention that works, the prototype that is replicable. Ideas are valuable when and only when they make possible actions and objects. “It can’t be done” is a challenge to an ENTP and elicits a reaction of “I can do it.” They are not, however, the movers of mountains as are the INTJ’s. Rather, the faith of the ENTP’s is in their ability to improvise something, and they display and unusual talent for rising to the expediency of a situation. Superficially, ENTP’s resemble ESTP’s in their derringdo. But the focus of the ENTP is on the competency and the sense of power this gives, rather than on the feeling of freedom of action experienced by the ESTP.

ENTP’s can be fascinating conversationalists, able as they are to follow the complex verbalizations of others. They may deliberately employ debate tactics to the disadvantage of their opponents, even when the “opponents” are close associates and valued friends. ENTP’s are the most able of all types to maintain a one-up position with others. They value adaptability and innovation and thus respond quickly and adeptly to another’s shifting position. They may even be several jumps ahead. The ENTP, talkative and motivating, is often the life of an enterprise. The ENTP can be an entrepreneur and
cleverly makes do with whatever or whoever is at hand, counting on ingenuity to solve problems as they arise, rather than carefully generating a detailed blueprint in advance. A rough draft is all that an ENTP needs to feel confident and ready to proceed into action, counting on the ability to improvise as a situation develops. Because of this tendency to depend on ingenuity and improvision, they may neglect very necessary preparation at times. After repeated failures in situations where improvising has met with defeat, the ENTP may develop ways of avoiding such situations as a substitute to thorough
preparation.

Career

ENTP’s can succeed in a variety of occupations, as long as the job does not involve too much humdrum routine. At this point, they become restless. If a project, in which they are engaged is no longer challenging, they tend to lose interest in that project and fail to follow through – often to the discomfort of colleagues.

Seldom are ENTP’s conformists. ENTP’S enjoy outwitting the system and use rules and regulations within the system to win the game – whatever it may be. The understand well the politics of institutions ENTP and deal with these realities very well, always aiming to understand the people within the system rather than to judge them. ENTP’S are good at innovative projects and can administer them well if well routine is not involved. They usually are outstanding teachers, continuously devising new participative ways to
make learning exciting for the students. As an employee, an ENTP may work against the system just for the joy of being one-up. For ENTP’s, to be taken-in, to be manipulated by another is humiliating; this offends their joy in being masters of the art of one-upmanship. ENTP’s are the natural engineers of human relationships and human systems. Their good humor and optimistic outlook tend to be contagious, and people seek out their company.
As mates, ENTP’s tend to create a lively living environment. They are gregarious, laugh easily and often, and are typically in good humor. Orderliness in the routines of daily living is not apt to inspire them; they usually solve this problem by mobilizing those around them. Tom Sawyer illustrated this talent when he solved the problem of getting Aunt Polly’s fence whitewashed. Life with ENTP’s is likely to be a daring adventure; they can lead families to physical and economic dangers. ENTP’s improvise to remain unaware that they do not have the necessary knowledge of the situation to ward off such dangers.

Home

If the mate of an ENTP is not competitive, he or she is likely to find one-up/one-down transactions somewhat wearing. If the mate is competitive, the result might be conflict. Although usually good providers of economic necessities, ENTP’s at times engage in brinkmanship with their careers, placing them in jeopardy and behaving as if unaware of the consequences; they may thus offer unnecessary challenges to those who have power over their professional success. When challenges elicit negative responses from superiors, ENTP’s are apt to react with delight at having an opportunity to improvise a
solution to the crisis and, more often than not, they succeed in doing so . ENTP’s are likely to have all sorts of hobbies and to be experts in unexpected areas, but they are not apt to share these hobbies with their mates or children in the sense of teaching them. In fact, ENTP’s may be very inconsistent in the attention given to offspring. Usually, it is feast or famine. ENTP’s have a lively circle of friends and are seldom critical or nagging. At their worst, they can show undependable, fickle characteristics and may be rather easily discouraged.

Midlife

At midlife ENTP’s can allow their tendency to experiment recklessly to get out of hand and may destroy or discard the work of half a lifetime, both in personal relationships and in careers. Energy spent in sorting out priorities and values may be a good investment at this time. Developing an increased awareness of emotional reactions and expanding the intensity and range of these through selfdevelopment work may be something ENTP’s might want to consider at midlife. An increased repertoire of introverted-type acti vities; for example, gardening, painting, or reading may be a source of pleasure to
ENTP’s.

MYERS-BRIGGS TYPE INDICATOR
MATING PROFILE
ENTP

Mates

The inventive ENTP finds in the ISFJ a neat complementarity for his enterprise, for in the ISFJ he finds the supreme conservator. The conservator, broadly conceived, is morally bound to ensure the material and legal welfare of his or her charge. The inventor, also broadly conceived, is bent on replacing whatever tools, operation, or enterprise now exists with a better one. Out to exercise his ingenuity in bettering things, the ENTP is of necessity iconoclastic and tends to be so seen. So he can get into a bit of
trouble with the elders, who usually are not all that pleased to see their tried-and true tools, operations, and enterprises blithely set aside for the ENTP’s better mousetrap. The ISFJ, mated to this inventive rascal, takes on the task of squaring things with the establishment.

The ENTP also may be attracted to his opposite on the N side: he approaches the INFJ. But the INFJ is humorously and preposterously different from the seemingly similar ISFJ. In the INFJ lies the soul of the “author” – the meaning-giver, the mystic, the oracle. Perhaps the INFJ is a conservator of the soul, a sort of messiah. At any rate, there is something about the “author” (very broadly conceived) which the ENTP covets. Prometheus had to pay dearly for giving fire to man. The Promethean ENTP may figure
that, though his INFJ mate may not rescue his body from the vultures, at least the INFJ might rescue his souls from Hell.

Courting

The mate of Promethean NT may well believe that the NT is quite oblivious to his welfare, and may see him as unaware of daily events which make up the stream of homely family life. The mate of an NT may long for more frequently verbalized expressions of affection and concern on the part of the NT. The NT, on the other hand, would probably be amazed that his or her way of relating and loving is experienced by the mate as being aloof or uncaring. NTs do seem rather cold and unemotional to other temperaments. They tend to control and hide their emotions behind an immobile facial stance, with only the eyes transmitting depth of reaction. A public display of emotion or affection is particularly repugnant to an NT. Because of the NT’s distaste for stating the obvious or being redundant, the NT is apt to verbalize expressions of affection rather infrequently. To other types this seems cold and miserly, and they often are hurt by the withhol ding. To the NT, stating what is already established is raising doubt where there is none. The commitment has been made; the position has been taken. And this commitment stands until notified. Therefore, clearly, it is unnecessary and inappropriate to restate the established and obvious.

In establishing sexual relationships NTs are not likely to give in to impulse, getting involved on a spur-ofthe–moment basis. Rather they are likely to think through relationships carefully, giving prolonged consideration to projections. Once the matter is thought through, the NT is ready to proceed with investing in the relationship. If it does not work out, the NT is likely to shrug his or her shoulders and turn away, perhaps with only mild regrets. Once an NT has made a decision, however, a change of heart is not likely to occur on his or her part, provided, of course, that a response has been forthcoming from
the recipient. And, in all likelihood, the NT will develop the relationship as he or she has conceived it. If the situation calls for a long-term commitment, this fact is not likely verbalized, since for the NT, this intent is obvious. But if the relationship is to be short-term, this fact is likely to be verbalized, just in case it is not obvious. NTs are likely to honor a personal commitment once make, even though the relationship was not consummated as satisfactorily as anticipated. Nor is the NT likely to verbalize any
disappointment or dissatisfaction if such is the case.

The NT mate is not apt to hold mates responsible for discord; usually the burden of doing whatever needs to be done will be seen by NTs as their own responsibility. The NTs, as a group, do not thrive on ENTP conflict at a personal level. They do enjoy intellectual dispute, but quarreling on an emotional level is something NTs find destructive; generally an NT will walk away from this kind of interaction.

Sex

NTs often have a curious amorality related to the generally accepted standards of sexual behaviors. The rules of society have little pressure for NTs, but their own idiosyncratic standards of conduct do. These usually have been carefully considered, and are followed with or without society’s approval. The sexual ethics of an NT are generally his own; they may or may not conform to the general morals or sexual behavior current in any given time.

Establishing a sexual or social relationship with an NT, especially introverted NTs, usually requires more investment of time and energy than with other types. This is especially in contrast with SPs, who are more ready to establish relationships. Often, types who are not NTs are unwilling to invest the time and energy required to relate to an NT. Even the extraverted NTs, although apparently easy to get to know, are actually fairly difficult to understand, for the personality structure of an NT is characteristically complex and, at times, even convoluted. Friends and mates of NTs repeatedly express surprise at a facet
of character they find in the NT, on that had not been apparent previously.

Female NTs, in particular, are apt to have their sexuality overlaid with intellectualism. Their preference for the logical can obscure expressions of their feelings, which may or may not be well developed. If not, the NT female may have difficulty with orgasmic responses unless her partner takes the time, makes the effort, and understands the necessity of making a sexual approach through mutual exploration of intellectual concepts. It is unlikely that an NT female will be sexually stimulated by a partner who is not her intellectual equal. Male NTs have a somewhat different expectation concerning intellectual equality.
The preference here is for equality at most and some – but not too much – inferiority at best. Obviously, this places the intellectually gifted female in a position of limited appropriate NT choices.

In any event, both female and male NTs can bring to a sexual relationship a willingness to explore possibilities of erotic arousal. If they have so marked it out as one of their areas of competency, NTs can be quite expert in sexual technology. They are very apt to possess skill in both the physical and psychological logistics involved in sexual intercourse, and to understand well the necessity for this relationship to be based on a wide variety of common interests outside the bedroom. Unlike the NF, who might consider it unromantic to study carefully scientific treatises on sexuality (e.g., Masters and Johnson, 1966), NTs would be likely to do so, finding it relatively easy to translate these objective findings into creative sexual, sensual behavior.

Interpersonal

Outside the bedroom, NTs seem to have more difficulty than other types in engaging in play. They are, on the whole, apt to be rather serious, finding it amusing to dialogue at what they might call “seventh plane of irreality,” a pastime which other types are apt to find rather dull. For the NT, the amusing and humorous is usually subtle and, more often than not, based on a play on words. They especially enjoy humor which contains an unexpected double meaning, but – unlike the SPs and, at times, the SJs – they
do not enjoy ribald sexual stories or practical jokes and find the recounting of both somewhat offensive, especially in mixed company.A few deep relationships are the usual pattern of an NT’s emotional history; promiscuity is typically regarded with distaste. The experience of partner swapping is apt to repel an NT, who would, in all probability, find this experience psychologically scarring. The NT mate is not likely to discuss past personal involvements with a mate or with others and almost never discusses a mate with friends.
Sensuality begins for an NT in the imagination, as it does for an NF; both types are capable of nuances of appreciation of the erotic which those with S preferences might find irrelevant or even unfathomable.

As a sexual partner, an NT can be highly creative, imaginative, and exciting. The degree of satisfaction for an NT in a relationship will be correlated with the depth of the relationship. Still, mere sexual release is sometimes seen as necessary, particularly if sexual tensions are getting in the way of important work. In that event, the tension is cared for with dispatch and as conveniently as possible.

Social

NTs tend to be relatively uninterested in acquiring wealth and as mates, therefore, tend to be satisfied with modest comforts. Possessions as an end in itself seems not to motivate NTs; rather, enjoyment in the beauty of an object, pleasures of design and building, pleasure in elegant functioning in possessions all motivate an NT. A vintage car, a classic airplane, an elegant art object, owned or not, give pleasure to an NT. This characteristic NT trait – enjoying without needing to possess – often causes mates who do not
share this detachment some impatience. The NT’s usual disinterest in acquiring material wealth beyond that necessary for reasonable security and comfort can also provide some dissonance in the mating relationship. Although an NT periodically is inspi red to acquire wealth, this urge seldom lasts long enough to acquire that fortune. The NT’s attention quickly turns once again to the theoretical, and the momentary interest in becoming wealthy dissipates – only to return from time to time with the same result.NTs seldom, however, lose interest in owning books and knowledge; these hold their interest year after
year, and an NT’s home is likely to be well-lined with books. In fact, the non-NT mate of an NT often perceives the NT as directing exclusive attention to the world of theory and techniques, at the expense of giving sufficient attention to the mate. Although NT’s may seem oblivious to the home life going about them, they usually show interest when these events are brought to attention. NTs are somewhat vague about social time, especially the introverted NT’s, and may be unaware, unless reminded, what hour, day, date, or season it is. This can lead to difficulty in the mating relationship when the mate is a type to
whom anniversaries, birthdays, and the like are important.

Domestic

Both NTs and introverted NFs tend to develop intimate relationships rather slowly; intellectual development seems to proceed at a faster rate than does social development. For both NTs and NFs, communications sent through the physical relationship are apt to become more and more complex over time, with their approaches to the sexual encounter threaded with subtleties and symbolism. The sexual act is usually given meaning beyond mere release from sexual tension. Sexual contact for the introverted NT may be less frequent than for the extraverted NT. Routines of daily living, such as working – especially if these daily routines are fraught with conflict – can be quite repressive to the emotional and sexual readiness of the NT, especially the introverted NT (as well as the introverted NF). NTs may engage in the sex act as a profound expression of love, or, at the opposite extreme, as an act of selfhumiliation and self-denigration, resulting in disgust for self.
NTs usually take family responsibilities seriously, particularly their own responsibility to members of their family, including their parents. They are, however, often perceived by member of the family as having more psychological distance between themselves and others than do other types. The NT tends not to “own” the behaviors (or body) of his mate as might other types. The errors of others, whether family members or not, are not the NT’s errors, and are handled objectively. The NT's own errors are those which are inexcusable, and unforgivable. Parenting is usually a pleasure, therefore, for an NT, who
seems to watch the growth of children (and a mate!) with joy but as somewhat of a bystander.
 

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Yep, the above is. . . yep.
 

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This is very accurate well done.:proud:
 
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Even the extraverted NTs, although apparently easy to get to know, are actually fairly difficult to understand, for the personality structure of an NT is characteristically complex and, at times, even convoluted. Friends and mates of NTs repeatedly express surprise at a facet of character they find in the NT, on that had not been apparent previously.

Female NTs, in particular, are apt to have their sexuality overlaid with intellectualism. Their preference for the logical can obscure expressions of their feelings, which may or may not be well developed. If not, the NT female may have difficulty with orgasmic responses unless her partner takes the time, makes the effort, and understands the necessity of making a sexual approach through mutual exploration of intellectual concepts.

Outside the bedroom, NTs seem to have more difficulty than other types in engaging in play. They are, on the whole, apt to be rather serious, finding it amusing to dialogue at what they might call “seventh plane of irreality,” a pastime which other types are apt to find rather dull. For the NT, the amusing and humorous is usually subtle and, more often than not, based on a play on words. They especially enjoy humor which contains an unexpected double meaning.
Wow. Wow. Truth.

I am always trying to explain these things to my non-NT friends. They don't understand why I won't be attracted to a perfectly lovely suitor. It isn't about intelligence levels-- it's about engaging me in a specific kind of intellectual way. The "seventh plane of irreality" and double entrendres are unbeatable.
 

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I love how this pays due attention to the ENTP's depth of character! This is so often over looked because, while INFJ's showcase their depth, ENTP's keep it hidden.
But we love to seek it out within you!
 
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This article makes me think I am more ENTP than ENFP. I have tested more times as ENFP but latly I have tested more ENTP. Maybe because of knowing myself better (thats what I hope at least).

Articles and descriptions such as these seem to fit me much better as ENTP than ENFP.

Rambling apart, Great article!
 
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