That's an over-generalization of ISFJ's. Honestly, if we're close friends and I LIKE you I will recognize your sarcasm and throw back some of my own. A lot of times if I cheerfully send sarcasm right back that's an easy way to tell if I like you. If I don't like you (or don't know you well) I will take your sarcasm personally.This has just reinforced my assumption that ISFJs take sarcastic humor, personalize it, then throw it out the window.
I have to respectfully disagree with this. I love sarcasm and sarcastic humor, as long as it's not intentionally used as a thinly-veiled criticism of someone present at the time. I don't personalize things, I do not assume everything in life is about me...quite the contrary.This has just reinforced my assumption that ISFJs take sarcastic humor, personalize it, then throw it out the window.
Wow, tough crowd. Hey, we all can't be as nice, sweet and caring as an ISFJ, can you ease up maybe just a little? After reading this thread I am a little afraid to ever talk to a woman again.
So I have to be manly and confident without being arrogant but sometimes confidence is interpreted by ISFJ as arrogance, so be very careful. I need to not be aggressive yet take control of the situation. I need to be funny sarcastic without anyone taking it wrong...*heads start spinning* need to be kind and considerate but not act TOO needy, like care but don't let on that you care. *Sigh* After reading this thread is why I truly feel men are the more insecure sex.