So, despite my best efforts to avoid them, I joined a dating app: Hinge. I've met some nice guys on there, but there was one I particularly sparked with. We made plans for a movie marathon, however, he's military and was going to be gone for a month before we could go on our first day. He asked if I was going on dates with other people, and I said yes because I didn't want to lie. He told me that he's okay with that, but once he's back and we go on a date, he expects me to cut everyone else off because he doesn't want to have to "compete" and doesn't want to play games. And I agree. We talk a whole bunch throughout the weekend, he tells me his plans for the dates we're going to go on when he gets back, and even thinks we'll work out. We FaceTime Sunday night and everything goes super well, I don't even want to get off the call with him, but I have dinner with my parents. Anyways, he says he wants to know what I'm thinking about feeling and I tell him that I haven't liked someone like this in awhile, and then he just says "ok". That was not the response I was expecting. He texts me good morning the next day, but doesn't really say a whole bunch. We were supposed to FaceTime, but he cancels on me. He does the same thing the next day. I tell him I want to delete the app, and he goes "why's that". I say it's because I found what I'm looking for from the app and he says "what happens if you don't like me in person?" I ask him if he's afraid I won't like him and he says "no, not really. I just feel like we took off kinda fast". I tell him I'm confused because I thought he wanted to do all these things together, and he says "I feel like we would just burn on out and I want to enjoy time off and you can do what you want, and we'll reconnect, it's not the worst thing." And I say okay and we agree to not talk until he gets back. Like WHAT THE HELL!!!! He says if I'm still interested then I can text him, or he will, and we can start from there. I'm so confused. Can someone explain what happened and if this guy has any intention of reconnecting with me?
Update: So we are both supposed to go to Oklahoma this weekend for Memorial Weekend, but we are 4.5 hours apart. He texted me this morning and says “hope you have fun in Oklahoma this weekend, send pics.”