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(Edited: The subject is not 'brainstorming session' bcoz usually in braistorming, everyone's idea/point is counted in. I would like to refer to the formal office discussions such as business discussions, management meeting or a root cause analysis meeting. Sorry for the error n thanx to Nyx !)
I think formal meetings are a torture for INFPs like us
Here are my reasons:
1. I want to contribute to the team, so my Extrovert side struggles to get loose
2. When it gets loose, my mouth goes on saying whatever my guts Feel rather than what are the facts i have or the logics I believe in (INFP = abstract thinking)
3. Even if i HAVE a strong fact/logic, I deliver it so poorly that no member buys it
4. In the end I would say "I should have just kept quiet & remain the Introvert me :frustrating:"
I really have respect for Introvert people (esp the ISXX) because these people although they r quiet, they usually say something concrete when they speak (may not be convincing but at least they can come up with logic/fact). I however am good at agreeing to other's idea, or adding up to someone's idea (esp if i like him/her)
Are we not born to be a real 'player' in business meetings??
I think formal meetings are a torture for INFPs like us
Here are my reasons:
1. I want to contribute to the team, so my Extrovert side struggles to get loose
2. When it gets loose, my mouth goes on saying whatever my guts Feel rather than what are the facts i have or the logics I believe in (INFP = abstract thinking)
3. Even if i HAVE a strong fact/logic, I deliver it so poorly that no member buys it
4. In the end I would say "I should have just kept quiet & remain the Introvert me :frustrating:"
I really have respect for Introvert people (esp the ISXX) because these people although they r quiet, they usually say something concrete when they speak (may not be convincing but at least they can come up with logic/fact). I however am good at agreeing to other's idea, or adding up to someone's idea (esp if i like him/her)
Are we not born to be a real 'player' in business meetings??