I wasn't bullied in the way that guys bully each other physically, but I was sexually harassed in middle school, which I count as bullying. It's just as detrimental to someone, I think. As a pubescent female, to have a group of boys constantly saying vulgar things to you and commenting about the way you look, it really makes you wanna just never talk to boys again and wear sweatshirts the rest of your life. I had a big issue with sex for a long time. When I finally dated someone I trusted, I didn't let him open his eyes when we made out, if he touched me too much, I would start crying, I didn't even show him my legs for two years. That meant I only wore pants for two years, even in the summer. I wore XL t-shirts even though I was a size Small. This all happened gradually once I realized that if I wore anything that was remotely flattering, I would get targeted.
It pisses me off because no teachers ever caught on to what was going on. It wasn't just me who was getting harassed either. There was a couple others. You would think someone in authority would notice or overhear something. But no. I wished so much that someone would take one of these guys and punish them. My wish finally came true once we entered high school. Two of the guys who used to harass me set their sights on some poor girl who was in a locker room and they basically sexually assaulted her and got themselves expelled. As sad as it was that this happened to her, I was so gratified knowing that these dudes finally got in trouble for something. It's just too bad that they weren't stopped sooner.
Ha, and one of them tried to friend me on facebook a while ago. Yeah fucking right. I'm a nice girl, but I'm not that nice.
I don't think it had to do with me being an INFP. I don't even think these guys gave one shit about my personality. I was just a body.