Most salient points. Also to owner of this thread, consider CP6 as your type. You seem to lack of understanding on type 8If you have trouble connecting to people on an emotional level, you have a couple options. Either do what I did, and study the concept and learn how to improve (because while you won't ever be on their level naturally, you can get much better), find friends who don't care that you can't meet them there and don't judge you for it and don't find you boring, or find friends that are just as emotionally constipated as you, so you can all suck together (a viable option!). It just depends on what you value, what you want to put time into, and what seems like it will lead to something that makes you content (or god forbid, happy). Realize that you have more agency in this predicament than you think.
My main advice would be to abstain from jumping to conclusions when you don't have enough data, and be careful about degrading women in your mind who care about those things just because you don't care about them, as that's an easy street to internalized misogyny.