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I'm really sick of trying to find my mbti type, I read about functions and this things but it dont help.
Here all types that I thought I was:
INTP
INTJ
ISTJ
ENTJ
ISTP

I really want to find my mbti type, so help me please! Here's some random information about me:

-I really like logic and I prefer logic instead of feelings, I'm also like to be called, cold,robot, heartless and this things, and I always say ''I dont have feelings'' but the reality is that I do have feelings I just wish I haven't.
-I'm also goal oriented and I would do anything to acomplish my goals.
-It's not hard to irritate me, I often get pretty angry with almost anything, but I just show it when it's really necessary.
-I can't understand the majority of my feelings.
-I'm agressive with all people, and I can be really intimidating, I'm just like ''If you irritate me I'll punch you'' and I actually punch or hit people if they irritate me, also the majority of people say that I'm like an asshole, and because of that people can be really afraid of me, and I dont have too much friends because of that.
-Theres times I want to be rude just to people think that I dont have emotions or feelings, and sometimes I'm rude accidentally.
-I can hide and control my emotions pretty well, and people just think they know what I'm think, but they actually dont know.
-I pretend to be stupid and silly almost everytime for some reason, but I'm pretty inteligent, and when I say something intelligent to my friends they get really suprised, thats funny.
-I'm really childish and cheerful with my family and close friends, but when you first meet me you will probably think that I'm the most serious person in the world.
-I'm a bit narcissist, sometimes I feel that I'm the best person in the world, and sometimes I feel that I'm the worst person in the world(principally when I fail)
-Sometimes I have insights, but they're not always correct
-I like to daydream and theories but at the same time I like facts
-I can be really productive and creative sometimes
-It's pretty hard to me to procastinate, but I'm a lazy person phisically to be honest.
-I really like interaction of people sometimes, but I need my time alone.
-I will not give up until I finished something, unless if its making me overwork myself or making me unhealthy
-I'm too quiet that people ask me if I'm sad, but I'm probably just daydreaming or trying to have time alone, and when people ask it I get really angry, and my friends think I'm drepessed but I'm just quiet! And I have times that I can be really loud, and my friends know it, so I don't know why they think I'm depressed!
-I'm a bit shy, but I always hide it, and when someone ask me if i'm shy, I always say ''I'm not shy I'm just quiet!'' thats like my ''excuse''.
-I'm really independent emotionally but phisically I dont even know how to cut bread
-I'm informal and formal at the same time
-I love to be the center of attention
-I'm organized with the things I care, but my house is full of socks scattered around
-The majority of my jokes is innapropriate, offensive jokes and daddy jokes.
-I'm sarcastic when I need to be.
-I handle criticism well if its a constructive one.
-I feel incopetent when I need help emontionally, because I'm always independent and this things, so I like to solve it on my own even if I dont know how to deal with it(I would probably search on google solutions) If I don't find I will probably get virtual help to feel less incompetent(Like I'm doing now)
-I'm always honest and direct.
-And I'm a person with few words

Well, these are the informations, hope you can type me with these informations,thanks if you do.
 

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Not going to lie OP, but you seem like a "T" wannabe. Would not be surprised if you were an "F".

 

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I feel it often helps to add up the letters of all the types you have considered.

For example, of the 5 types you listed:
I wins 4-1
N wins 3-2
T wins 5-0
J wins 3-2

So at the very least you are probably some kind of IxTx, and this method would give you INTJ as the best guess.
 

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Well, I don't think I'm a ''T'' wannabe, it's pretty difficult for me to show my feelings tbh, and I don't make decisions based on my feelings or feelings of others, I make decisions based on logic
 

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because you are.
:laughing: Best dialogue ever :laughing:

Now seriously. I think you're an INTJ. I like how you said: people think you're "like" an asshole and then go on describing how you are... I won't say arrogant dick... I'll just say unpleasant to everyone :) It happens to INTJs to be considered that way from time to time. Why do I say you're an INTJ? You mention you have few friends and are a man of few words, you also seem to prefer it that way, not feeling the need to socialise or otherwise focus on the outside world, preferring to focus on one's ideas instead (therefore I). Also, you seem to enjoy mind games and activities which solicit your mind, are theoretical, have a certain degree of creativity, insight, daydreaming and an... irreverent sense of humour (therefore the N). You have a pereference for forceful reactions to issues and people and for cold objective facts, like statistics (therefore T). Last, but not least you are organised, productive and have good follow through (therefore J). Also, I share some of the characteristics (the tendency in general, but not the specific behaviours).

Now, you should remember that these are general preferences. Life experience can alter your natural INTJ tendencies. I'm also an INTJ, but have moments when I can seem like an ENTJ or ESTJ, even like an INFJ. There are times when an extrovert can prefer to spend a quite night at home, a sensor can discuss philosophical theories, a feeling type can decide based on logic or a perceiver can be serious and organised. It doesn't make them any less of an... ESFP. It just means they prefer certain cognitive functions most of the time, but not all of the time. This is why I think you got different results.

Lastly, I want to mention the fact that type descriptions may not apply to you. Take INTJ... About half of that describes me accurately, the other half would be found in the ENTJ description. Also, the descriptions tend to overestimate certain characteristics. INTJs are presented as brilliant strategists, always 10 steps ahead of everyone else... Take me, for example: yes, I am better at strategy in real life than most people (I suck at strategy games), I think more long term and more strategically than the average person, but I'm definitely not like a puppet master manipulating people, always in control of the situation, always predicting how things will play out. I just have a better plan regarding how to shop at a supermarket :D
 

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Well, I don't think I'm a ''T'' wannabe, it's pretty difficult for me to show my feelings tbh, and I don't make decisions based on my feelings or feelings of others, I make decisions based on logic
You sure about the that?
 
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:laughing: Best dialogue ever :laughing:

Now seriously. I think you're an INTJ. I like how you said: people think you're "like" an asshole and then go on describing how you are... I won't say arrogant dick... I'll just say unpleasant to everyone :) It happens to INTJs to be considered that way from time to time. Why do I say you're an INTJ? You mention you have few friends and are a man of few words, you also seem to prefer it that way, not feeling the need to socialise or otherwise focus on the outside world, preferring to focus on one's ideas instead (therefore I). Also, you seem to enjoy mind games and activities which solicit your mind, are theoretical, have a certain degree of creativity, insight, daydreaming and an... irreverent sense of humour (therefore the N). You have a pereference for forceful reactions to issues and people and for cold objective facts, like statistics (therefore T). Last, but not least you are organised, productive and have good follow through (therefore J). Also, I share some of the characteristics (the tendency in general, but not the specific behaviours).

Now, you should remember that these are general preferences. Life experience can alter your natural INTJ tendencies. I'm also an INTJ, but have moments when I can seem like an ENTJ or ESTJ, even like an INFJ. There are times when an extrovert can prefer to spend a quite night at home, a sensor can discuss philosophical theories, a feeling type can decide based on logic or a perceiver can be serious and organised. It doesn't make them any less of an... ESFP. It just means they prefer certain cognitive functions most of the time, but not all of the time. This is why I think you got different results.

Lastly, I want to mention the fact that type descriptions may not apply to you. Take INTJ... About half of that describes me accurately, the other half would be found in the ENTJ description. Also, the descriptions tend to overestimate certain characteristics. INTJs are presented as brilliant strategists, always 10 steps ahead of everyone else... Take me, for example: yes, I am better at strategy in real life than most people (I suck at strategy games), I think more long term and more strategically than the average person, but I'm definitely not like a puppet master manipulating people, always in control of the situation, always predicting how things will play out. I just have a better plan regarding how to shop at a supermarket :D
Ohh, now I understand things better, thanks!
 

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I wouldn't dig too deep if I were you tbh... I am not sure of my own type myself and since MB is a binary choice system it is possible for some people to find it harder than others to fall into one of the categories.
If you think about it, just sixteen types of personalities is not enough to fit all the combinations that are out there. Don't try to push yourself into one of them. You may be somewhere "in between".

What I do instead is I read the descriptions of all the types that I got as results of the different tests I took (mines are: INFP, INFJ, INTJ and INTP) and I try to see if I can relate to any of the qualities described. I have something in common with all of these is what I found. From there I look for self-development tips that relate to the aspects that I found relate to me. For example, the tips for types that use introverted intuition and extraverted intuition functions were both useful to me.

Don't put yourself in a box if it's not meant for you. You may give up on some useful insights if you do. After all we want to keep shaping ourselves into a better, more healthy person. You are not worse than those who do fit into the MB categories. That systems is based on four markers only. Let's say there were 10 markers. That would give you 100 categories and then it would be a lot easier for you to fall into one of those. But the test would probably take 24 hours to finish xD
 

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Oh! I though of another tip. What I also do is a kind of experiment. I do the online test putting myself in another person's shoes. For example a person I really dislike and cannot relate to at all. A kind of anti-soulmate. To me it's an ISTJ. When I read the description I almost died of boredom. It tells you not only what kind of person is in disonans with you but it also tell you what kind of person you do not want to become or be viewed as. Some people are in denial of who they truly are as it does not fit the "ideal" they have in mind.
I found it interesting to see that I found people who are incredibly logical and deal with facts are "boring" to me. I am surrounded by artistic types and I study a creative degree so I feel pressure to be very creative and interested in abstract ideas. My view of myself may be influenced by that then. I encourage you to do a similar thing and you may find that there is a certain bias as well.
Hope you see what I mean and it's useful to you. It's all about getting the full picture and different insights and perspectives.
 
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