As much as I would like to interpret this response as an asshole response, it is the truth. There will always be manipulative, deceptive, and cruel people out there. The only thing that the OP can do is to learn how to live with them.You feel bad, bo fucking hoo.
How about you take responsibility for your own feelings rather than blaming an entire type for them. No one can make you feel bad without your consent so instead of complaining, how about you stop hanging out with manipulative people (who may or not be ESTPs) or stop falling into their traps. Quite simple.
Arishort, I cant help that, but I must agree with Idan of Europa, despite I suspect that with attitude you have it would end up like this: you would feel bad because of "quilt" of ESTPs.Is there a desired response to this thread that you're looking for, OP?