[Unicorntopia]

As an INFJ have you notice that you are good at charming the Dom or Tert Fi user?

I have noticed that I can make them smile and laugh with relative ease to other types.

I think this may be because Fe makes us value their values that they hold so dear and Ni shows us what we need to do to make it happen.

 

[Unicorntopia]

Hope it's at least mutual. And I hope that your Fe doesn't tell me what I want to hear if it's not.

Yeah, I think that would be called manipulation. I am just talking about making you smile. :laughing:

 

[Unicorntopia]

definitely.

you guys don't even have to do anything sometimes, somehow i feel like you are someone i can open up and be completely friendly to without you saying much at all- it's the look in your eye, your body language, tone of your voice, something just communicates safety and positive emotions from INFJs.

You know it is all intentional. *lifts eyebrows* :wink:

 

[Unicorntopia]

Hope it's at least mutual. And I hope that your Fe doesn't tell me what I want to hear if it's not.

Are you talking about leading someone on?

That would be deceiving so I don't do that.

I will give an example of what I am talking about to clarify.

I have always been able to make my INFP Mom crack up like crazy.

 

[Unicorntopia]

I worry about this a lot. I don't know if I really give anything to the INFJ I know. I don't think of her doing it out of anything self-serving but just natural Fe-reflexes, but the Ni-dom makes her very mysterious and I know there's more going on than I can see. I'm curious, but I don't probe it because I don't know if I'm allowed to I only remember one or two times when I felt something a little less 'light' coming from her.
What do you INFJs feel INFPs give you? I'm sure we all hope that we're not just taking from you! :happy:

One of my INFP freinds helps ground me and remember what is important to me. She helps me use Fi when I should but would not have if she were not there to give me permission. If I find an INFP who is honest and has similar values to my own they are extremely valuable to me. They are also often silly and fun with all the possibilities they come up with. They are very creative and can find ways to extinguish the bordom. They are always into some new interesting thing they read about or heard about. They bring it to my attention, I run it through my Ni to see if it is good enough to use and if it is, I set it in motion.