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Not sure why I'm even asking this since everyone feels/thinks differently. 
If your partner becomes unattractive to you because you feel unattractive. Say you gain a bunch of unwanted weight, start forming acne all over your face, or your living situation stresses you to the point where anything he/she may do bugs the crap out of you, to where you just want to be alone for a while. Any little thing sets you off. Whatever the cause may be.
Here is my question:
If you have sexual thoughts of other men/women without meaning to when you see a stranger, is this cheating? What if you stop yourself? If you tell yourself it's wrong after it happens. What if you compare your SO to a celebrity? Not in a sexual manner, but say you believe your SO could be bigger in stature so you feel more secure, like you may not feel safe with them. I don't think that necessarily has to be sexual. If this is cheating, and you've told them about it, what should you do if they tell you that it isn't?
If you're honest about what you've done. Say you mentioned to another person that they are cute, and you tell your significant other that you're not in love with them, you find them unattractive. If they tell you it's ok, and then make up some excuse like it's your hormones, what do you do now? What if you still feel guilty?
If your partner becomes unattractive to you because you feel unattractive. Say you gain a bunch of unwanted weight, start forming acne all over your face, or your living situation stresses you to the point where anything he/she may do bugs the crap out of you, to where you just want to be alone for a while. Any little thing sets you off. Whatever the cause may be.
Here is my question:
If you have sexual thoughts of other men/women without meaning to when you see a stranger, is this cheating? What if you stop yourself? If you tell yourself it's wrong after it happens. What if you compare your SO to a celebrity? Not in a sexual manner, but say you believe your SO could be bigger in stature so you feel more secure, like you may not feel safe with them. I don't think that necessarily has to be sexual. If this is cheating, and you've told them about it, what should you do if they tell you that it isn't?
If you're honest about what you've done. Say you mentioned to another person that they are cute, and you tell your significant other that you're not in love with them, you find them unattractive. If they tell you it's ok, and then make up some excuse like it's your hormones, what do you do now? What if you still feel guilty?