So when I first came into mbti I typed myself as an INFJ because the portrait fit better than INFP. Then I took a couple tests and one of my friend familiar with mbti all typed me as INFP and so I considered myself this more and more as I read about functions and such. I relate very well to Fi/Ne but I've begun to see a considerable amount of Ni/Fe as well. About the J/P tendency, I am a perfectionist about things I really care about. I can be quite spontaneous especially my inner world. And I can be a little messy but am quite punctual. I've read INFJ's tend to be the one of the least J types of all. I find myself quite able to read into people quite well and able to pick up little details. I'm really having trouble figuring myself out. If you have more questions to help you out typing me, I'd be more than happy to answer. I'd be sooo thankfull for your help!