I think you are:
Fi-Se-Ni-Te
or
Fi-Ni-Se-Te
Is this possible even if I don't relate to Te-inf problems? I've always known that one of the best ways to type yourself is look into your inferior function and how it affects your life. Te-inf doesn't really make sense to me. Is it possible for an isfp to have no problems with Te and actually have an average use of it?
Is this possible even if I don't relate to Te-inf problems? I've always known that one of the best ways to type yourself is look into your inferior function and how it affects your life. Te-inf doesn't really make sense to me. Is it possible for an isfp to have no problems with Te and actually have an average use of it?
If I had to rank those four functions based on how much I use them, it would be Ni=Fi>Te>Se. Again, with a Te giving me less problems than Se it makes no sense.
So how do you use Te in your everyday life? Can you give some examples about how it didn't meet the inferior use?
I also like to know how you think of the following questions if you'd like to tell me:
1. When someone points out that some of your behaviors is "inappropriate", do you take it to your heart almost every time, or sometimes don't care about it as long as you think this behavior is acceptable to yourself?
2. When you see some visual clues, do you read it literally at first glance, or jump to a meaning immediately?
It's hard for me to put into words, but I'll try. My use of Ni is mostly related to knowing what other people are thinking or feeling. As I explained above, even a small visual clue like a misplaced object or someone's surroundings can make a thought pop up in my mind. One concrete example: last month I came back home after a week and as soon as I went through the door, a thought popped into my mind, which was "my flatmate is not feeling fine, something happened to her", even if I literally had nothing to confirm this. She couldn't have told me anything because she was sleeping at the time, and when I went to check up on her she didn't tell me anything about it, until she opened up a few hours later and I confirmed I was right.Ni Fi Te Se are INTJ functions. Do you think you are Ni dom or Fi dom?
Fi Ni Te Se?
You sound more like you use Ti, “makes sense” is Ti statement. “I wouldn’t be happy with this”is Fi statement.
When/how do you use Ni?
As for the use of Te, I just know I have no problems with organization and efficiency as long as I can do things my own way. Other people's methods just don't work for me, but I can always find my own and I can reach the conclusions and results I need this way. I must say however that organization and efficiency are not that important to me in every context, they are in my job and when I'm trying to do something that inevitably requires some planning, but other than that I don't care about being organized in every situation and I don't like planning things thoroughly if I don't need to, as long as I have a general idea of what to do and what to expect it's fine, I like to know what awaits but I also like to be flexible.
As for the questions, to the first one I would answer that yes, I do take it personally when someone says I'm not being appropriate, as I do my best to be polite and correct in every occasion.
As for the second question, I would say that I immediately know the meaning of something I see; even just a misplaced object or looking at someone's face or surroundings can give me insight on what is going on/what the other person is feeling.
It's hard for me to put into words, but I'll try. My use of Ni is mostly related to knowing what other people are thinking or feeling. As I explained above, even a small visual clue like a misplaced object or someone's surroundings can make a thought pop up in my mind. One concrete example: last month I came back home after a week and as soon as I went through the door, a thought popped into my mind, which was "my flatmate is not feeling fine, something happened to her", even if I literally had nothing to confirm this. She couldn't have told me anything because she was sleeping at the time, and when I went to check up on her she didn't tell me anything about it, until she opened up a few hours later and I confirmed I was right.
I often have insights like this into what people might be going through, and a similar thing happens to a lesser extent on my job (for context, I'm in the research field) when I just seem to know instinctively what the best way to approach a problem is, which saves a lot of time in many occasions.
I must specify though that I wasn't born with the ability to read people so well, it's rather something that suddenly started happening when I was around 15, because as a child and pre-teen I was pretty much clueless about what other people were feeling or thinking and this made me very naive and caused me a lot of problems with others in return, so I have no idea if I became hyper-aware as a survival strategy or what else.
As for the use of Te, I just know I have no problems with organization and efficiency as long as I can do things my own way. Other people's methods just don't work for me, but I can always find my own and I can reach the conclusions and results I need this way. I must say however that organization and efficiency are not that important to me in every context, they are in my job and when I'm trying to do something that inevitably requires some planning, but other than that I don't care about being organized in every situation and I don't like planning things thoroughly if I don't need to, as long as I have a general idea of what to do and what to expect it's fine, I like to know what awaits but I also like to be flexible.
As for the questions, to the first one I would answer that yes, I do take it personally when someone says I'm not being appropriate, as I do my best to be polite and correct in every occasion.
As for the second question, I would say that I immediately know the meaning of something I see; even just a misplaced object or looking at someone's face or surroundings can give me insight on what is going on/what the other person is feeling.
It's hard for me to put into words, but I'll try. My use of Ni is mostly related to knowing what other people are thinking or feeling. As I explained above, even a small visual clue like a misplaced object or someone's surroundings can make a thought pop up in my mind. One concrete example: last month I came back home after a week and as soon as I went through the door, a thought popped into my mind, which was "my flatmate is not feeling fine, something happened to her", even if I literally had nothing to confirm this. She couldn't have told me anything because she was sleeping at the time, and when I went to check up on her she didn't tell me anything about it, until she opened up a few hours later and I confirmed I was right.
I often have insights like this into what people might be going through, and a similar thing happens to a lesser extent on my job (for context, I'm in the research field) when I just seem to know instinctively what the best way to approach a problem is, which saves a lot of time in many occasions.
I must specify though that I wasn't born with the ability to read people so well, it's rather something that suddenly started happening when I was around 15, because as a child and pre-teen I was pretty much clueless about what other people were feeling or thinking and this made me very naive and caused me a lot of problems with others in return, so I have no idea if I became hyper-aware as a survival strategy or what else.
How old are you? (some approximate range)
This also happens to me, but usually it's more of a "ah-ah!" moment based on nothing tangible in particular. However, I am indeed good at reading other people's behavior, especially the way they speak or their posture or just their eyes. As I said before though, that is something I acquired suddenly when I was around 15, and not a skill I was naturally born it.I would believe you it’s Ni dom (INFJ) if you said you can know people’s intentions and characters based on small clues in behavior (Ni-Fe).
I've recently turned 25.
One thing still makes no sense to me if I were an isfp: how can I have a Se so weak, even weaker than Te?
It was Se dom in one test.
Regardless of that result (which is also the only test in which I scored so high on Se), I realize my use of Se in real life is pretty much nonexistent. I don't really live in the present, but only in my own head... and every time I try to "be in the moment" (which is usually when I'm drunk because otherwise I don't really let myself go), it ends up being a mess and chaotic. Is that normal for a Se-aux?
I used to think it could be a loop, but it was like this my whole life, therefore the loop theory makes no sense.
However, I am indeed good at reading other people's behavior, especially the way they speak or their posture or just their eyes. As I said before though, that is something I acquired suddenly when I was around 15, and not a skill I was naturally born it.
Regardless of that result (which is also the only test in which I scored so high on Se), I realize my use of Se in real life is pretty much nonexistent. I don't really live in the present, but only in my own head... and every time I try to "be in the moment" (which is usually when I'm drunk because otherwise I don't really let myself go), it ends up being a mess and chaotic. Is that normal for a Se-aux?
I used to think it could be a loop, but it was like this my whole life, therefore the loop theory makes no sense.
You coud be FiNi(SeTe) like I said.
I am NiTiFeSe, it’s not that uncommon to have inner stack permutations.
Se is about information gathering, not just being in the moment (that’s for Se inferior, maybe).
Try read about ISFP (and INFP), see if it makes sense. Ni doms are INXJ. It’s also about how you behaviorally appear to others, P/J should be obvious.
I've read about both Ni-doms and Fi-doms, and honestly the descriptions make no sense and don't apply to me. I'm not methodical, precise and organized to an extreme degree, but neither am I a complete airheard that doesn't know how to get things done... I am organized and efficient when I need to be and I am in my own way. Nor am I extremely emotional to the point of not being able to hold back judgement when I need to, I know when it is the moment to express myself and when I need to shut up.
As for how I appear to others, I bet others are going to say that I'm serious, determined, organized, precise, a stickler for rules and details and all that stuff.. but that's on the surface and on the workplace. I don't really let people get to know me on a deeper level and beyond work-related stuff.
I also looked into inferior functions, as I said inf-Te makes no sense, inf-Se would make more sense based on the fact that the thing that hurts me the most is realizing that I'm physically unable to do something (for ex. not being good at sports is one of the most painful things in my life) and that I can't be spontaneous to save my life. I also used to have periods in which I would go crazy about diet and exercise and physical fitness in general, but that might just be sp-blind overfocus and ED-related problems, so I'm not sure I can blame inferior Se for all of this.
Se is not about sports. It’s a complex perceiving function, especially higher in the stack (dom & aux). It doesn’t make you good in sports. ISTPs are also not “sporty”, it doesn’t work like this. How it works: higher functions support lower; eg. Se gathers info, Ni analyses. Or: Ni gathers info, Ti analyses. It’s about the ordering/ranking, or information processing; how we gather and process new information.
I know what; what I meant is what my lack in physical ability means to me.
The inferior function is supposed to be the one that makes you feel the most inadequate and gives you the most problems, and for me that's definitely tied to the world of Se. That's how I knew inferior function works, at least; I'm not sure anymore.
Are these your stressors:
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This would make sense. But if this is true, what's the point of the inferior function theory?I don’t look at any of the top 4 functions as weakly developed; weakly developed are bottom 4 (shadow functions). Top 4 are normal “everyday” functioning. Inferior Te would mean you just don’t prefer to use it all the time.