Hmm...Well, I am more comfortable with being myself around someone if we were dating and then had sex. But if it's a one time thing cuz I got caught up in the heat of the moment I want to get out ASAP. I start making excuses of why I need to leave or I pretend to be asleep and hope I can make it home before they start trying to get closer or do more with me. But usually I just want to play video games and eat pizza after sex.
No I wouldn't be with you if I didn't feel like I could be myself with you. I lounge, I cuddle, I walk around naked (I love being naked). And you should do the same. Tease me, joke with me. It's all good as long answer are being ourselves.