[ForsakenMe]

I have this... issue. Where when I talk to people either online or offline... I speak with so much enthusiasm. :/ I like to make faces a lot both online and offline, and I stress so much about how I feel about a situation, and I explain in so much details to people, and I'm scared I'll come off as too... lively or something. I even talk with my hands sometimes.

Am I the only one?

 

[Azure Bass]

Nooo. It seems like you possess refined communication skills if you use hand gestures and other things. I can be enthusiastic as well, but only when I feel like it. When I'm at my best, I'm smiling all the time online in chat conversations, and I have a grin on my face and greet strangers with a "hello." I also get in depth with conversations, but sometimes people don't care for the subject. At any rate, we have different opinions of the enthusiasm. I think of it as me being positive. Hey, it's not always a bad thing to have enthusiasm; even if you're an introvert! :happy:

 

[Paradigm]

I have the opposite problem, actually. I tend to have a neutral, borderline apathetic, expression and tone of voice. When I'm excited, I'm more lively... but not overly so.

 

[Coccinellidae]

Nah..why do you worry about that? It's nothing weird..enthusiasm is fun and I like enthusiastic people!

 

[Darkestblue]

I'm definitely like that online. Lots of emotes. Lots of extra words to add enthusiasm and whatnot. I like the reader to get a sense of how I'm saying something.

 

[rowingineden]

I always speak passionately, but I try to speak logically simultaneously, and to be very clear in my communication. When I write speeches and then I have to deliver them, I'm going to have to admit that I often do end up choking back tears, unexpectedly, because as I read the words aloud, I realize for the first time how much I really meant them.

 

[ForsakenMe]

Thanks guys. :crazy: It's kinda embarrassing when I think about all the times I would explain something to my parents (a subject they do not give two craps about) with a lot of enthusiasm and my parents are like;

Me: *talking*
Mom: ... :dry:
Dad: :frustrating:

 

[rowingineden]

Thanks guys. :crazy: It's kinda embarrassing when I think about all the times I would explain something to my parents (a subject they do not give two craps about) with a lot of enthusiasm and my parents are like;

Me: *talking*
Mom: ... :dry:
Dad: :frustrating:

Ts especially do a lot of that, or sometimes your emotion will scare the hell out of them, which is kinda fun. roud:

 

[Icewater]

I don't think it's really an issue.. just a trait to your personality.

But yes, I do it too. roud: It's the F part, maybe? To be happy/excited/joyful ad want to be able to express it? I think people have gotten slightly annoyed when I do this too, but I can't really stop. Or I can, rather. But would much prefer not to, and be able to express the joys in life. :happy:

 

[ForsakenMe]

Ts especially do a lot of that, or sometimes your emotion will scare the hell out of them, which is kinda fun. roud:

I THINK my dad is an ESTP and my mom is an ESTJ... So you can imagine our conflicting relationship with each other. :happy:

 

[SenhorFrio]

i speak with PASSION, my words are like flames!

maybe that was to much passion....

 

[ForsakenMe]

i speak with PASSION, my words are like flames!

maybe that was to much passion....

I think this is why I really enjoyed theater art when I was younger... If I had the money, I would ALWAYS want to visit broadway shows. So much passion and emotion!

 

[rowingineden]

I think this is why I really enjoyed theater art when I was younger... If I had the money, I would ALWAYS want to visit broadway shows. So much passion and emotion!

I wanted to be Annie on Broadway when I was little. I was all about performing arts, all the time. It was *dramatic jazz hands and sing-song voice* My thing...

 

[rowingineden]

i speak with PASSION, my words are like flames!

maybe that was to much passion....

Passion is sexy.

 

[ForsakenMe]

I wanted to be Annie on Broadway when I was little. I was all about performing arts, all the time. It was *dramatic jazz hands and sing-song voice* My thing...

I loooove Annie. I also enjoyed Hamlet and Romeo & Juliet.

 

[SenhorFrio]

Passion is sexy.

:blushed:i'd have to agree with you!