So my mom and I are both INFPs and yet we usually crash with each other. While I enjoy being silent and chill (reading, netflix, pinterest, etc.) she constantly demands my attention and gets mad if I do any of these activities in which she cannot participate (mostly because we don't like the same shows, books, etc.). While I despise arguments and actively evade conflictive topics, she is quick to bring them up and start an everlasting fight in which she will not stop yelling behind my bedroom's door for at least half an hour. I try to be open minded and respect everyone's beliefs and values while she will take it as personal offense if I refuse to go to church or if I don't think that being skinny is a priority. I won't say that she is the cause of all problems in our relationship because a relationship is built between two. I admit that I might not respond in a very nice way when she makes fat jokes or when she starts trying to organize and plan MY life. I'm kind of living in a constant defensive mode which might be fueling the conflict even more, as now she can't stand my attitude either. I'm also suffering from binge eating disorder and this family issues are really slowing my recovery. I'm already 18 and in college and yet I can't manage to get her off my back and that drives me crazy. Not to mention that if I don't manage to escape into my room while arguing chances are that I'll get slapped, kicked, thrown something at, etc. How could this situation be possibly solved? How is it possible that we are both INFPs?