Did it seem passive aggressive? That sounds a little passive aggressive. I kind of want to drop kick this guy. He makes me angry. Would you like me to drop kick him? I can drop kick him for you.Soooo, there have been some new developments. He finally replied after one week. But I provoked him to reply and I have no idea if he would have replied otherwise.
He said that he replies when he has time and energy. And that my rights to write him are equal to his rights meaning that I can write him whenever I want to and he can reply whenever he feels like it.
My random internet stranger but detective partner advice would be no, do not invest any more time in this butthead. Except for time spent in our investigation, please continue investing time in that. When people care about another person, they make them a priority. This is a human thing, not a type thing. I don't think he's testing, and even if he was that is all the more reason to bid him adieuuuuu boo 👋Considering it wasn’t really the problem at the beginning as he was always replying in a timely manner, I’m not sure how I feel about this. Should I invest any more time in him by initating conversations even if he might take longer to reply? Or should I better take a break from him? He mentioned having even less time in the future so it might be because he really is extra busy now.
But one thing is clear that he probably doesn’t care about me at all otherwise he wouldn’t ignore me for so long. Or maybe he was testing me in some way, but I don’t think that’s true. So because of that it’s probably better to just let him be...