Introvert and I can’t imagine being with someone for 5 months let alone 5 years....I’m tritype 459....each withdrawal, so triple withdrawal, the true introvert.
this is so true for me. Being a true introvert ...
I’ve never had a problem meeting ppl or getting dates. I love the idea of being in love, but it ends there.
idk, maybe I just like the chase ( I mostly flirted with ppl out of my league and they would end up liking me, then I went numbed or freaked, I left) but I think i was pushed to believed “we” humans should be in relationships and subconsciously I would pick ppl out of my league bc it felt safe to me bc in my mind i wasn’t their type, so I thought it would never actually turn into anything....,but consciously I was trying to fall in love which never worked.... it didn’t really click with me that I could be happy alone bc everyone kept pushing it on me plus I was young and still trying to understand what I wanted and what my priorities are in life etc..
....even now my parents still “ wish for some guy to sweep me off my feet”, they Still don’t get me.
I live a very nomadic lifestyle and I meet and talk to a lot of interesting ppl. I’m trying to get more settle, getting older now, lol. most of my teens and early adulthood I traveled with Gypsies, mined for jewelry like sapphires opal, rubies mostly in places like Nevada, Arizona.... southwest.
I haven’t had a roommate since 2004, and stop dating around the same time. If love is meant for me it will have to falli in my lap, I’m not searching for it anymore. I’m not against it just not looking anymore, I got enough on my plate That I like and keeps me busy.
I am So use to my frreedom, i Just can’t imagine having someone in my personal/scared space......
sometimes, tho, I imagine the perfect situation... would be owning some land in the middle of no where, preferably with lots of snow, maybe an hour away from a town. Not too far. And having like 2 cabins on it....one for me and the other for my partner....we will always have our own space and not always up top of each other but close enough to have meaningful time in nature together.
but I’m totally happy being alone I really can’t imagine having to share a space with someone. It’s an extremely uncomfortable thought for me. I won’t even live in apartment buildings bc its too close to others, I don’t even want to share walls.