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If two people got naked in front of each other on webcam and did sexual things/talked about sexual things without informing their significant others, and these two people wanted to keep the incident a secret although it was only for one day..Is it considered cheating?

I'm just curious.
 

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I'm just curious.
Imagine how curious this makes me! ;)
But, yeah, id call that cheating, because, its obviously sexual in nature, and yeah, if you do that in real life, even without touching being involved, would be the same idea i guess.
 

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I would say yes. Then i would say: I am very disappointed in you, my child.
 

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I suppose yes. But it's not worse than actual intercourse so maybe I would be able to forgive my partner for that especially if it was someone he didn't know in person and just wanted to experiment.
 

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If two people got naked in front of each other on webcam and did sexual things/talked about sexual things without informing their significant others, and these two people wanted to keep the incident a secret although it was only for one day..Is it considered cheating?

I'm just curious.
YES ABSOLUTELY; However there may be some more modern ideas here, on PerC. Some couples have various agreements, and open relationships, etc. But for me, I would not like this if my partner did this with another woman.

Maybe some flirtation would be allowed, I mean realistically these days, it is impossible to keep an eye on someone all the time (not that I would want to), so if a guy I knew was engaging in some flirtation, then so be it, but there are places where lines are crossed...perhaps you have to explore that?

I hope this hasn't happened to you (or you are not engaging in this activity), you seem so sweet in the picture, btw :) Maybe you can elaborate on what brings you to ask these questions? Curious?
 
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I like to operate under the assumption that if you have to ask "is this cheating", then the answer is probably yes.
I agree with this statement.
 

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Of course. The principle here is sexual exclusivity, and it's being violated.
 

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If two people got naked in front of each other on webcam and did sexual things/talked about sexual things without informing their significant others, and these two people wanted to keep the incident a secret although it was only for one day..Is it considered cheating?

I'm just curious.
According to who? Me? I don't know. If my girlfriend did it I wouldn't care about it but some might consider it cheating.
 

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Yes, it's cheating. Otherwise, why keep it a secret?
 
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Yes, it's cheating. Otherwise, why keep it a secret?
By that logic it wouldn't be cheating if I came home one day saying "Hey hun. I just picked up the chicken for tonights dish. We need to rebudget our food account. Also, I fucked your sister".

This is me being serious: This is the sort of thing that needs to be agreed upon, at least loosely, in advance. Some people don't even allow porn, others don't care if you're banging the secretary while giving your boss a blowjob.

It doesn't have to be this weird moment where you sit down with the other person asking "Uhh, so... What you consider... You know cuz we need to agree and stuff.... Cheating?". It's enough to just bring up some examples and discuss them, that way you'll get a feel for your partner and what he or she expects trusts, and doesn't like.
 

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By that logic it wouldn't be cheating if I came home one day saying "Hey hun. I just picked up the chicken for tonights dish. We need to rebudget our food account. Also, I fucked your sister".

This is me being serious: This is the sort of thing that needs to be agreed upon, at least loosely, in advance. Some people don't even allow porn, others don't care if you're banging the secretary while giving your boss a blowjob.

It doesn't have to be this weird moment where you sit down with the other person asking "Uhh, so... What you consider... You know cuz we need to agree and stuff.... Cheating?". It's enough to just bring up some examples and discuss them, that way you'll get a feel for your partner and what he or she expects trusts, and doesn't like.
Well, that's not quite what I was going for. :wink: I meant literally, WHY keep it a secret? If you're keeping it a secret because you know your significant other wouldn't approve, then it's cheating.

And I totally agree with you. People assume that exclusivity means fidelity, but that word means different things to different people.
 

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Well, that's not quite what I was going for. :wink: I meant literally, WHY keep it a secret? If you're keeping it a secret because you know your significant other wouldn't approve, then it's cheating.

And I totally agree with you. People assume that exclusivity means fidelity, but that word means different things to different people.
Very well put.
 

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I like to operate under the assumption that if you have to ask "is this cheating", then the answer is probably yes.
I second this statement - Hey sofort99 - welcome here to PerC; Your posts are very direct and straightforward, it is refreshing; and in most cases, pretty hot :) Juss saying...not going after you or anything! There needs to be more of this directness on here, and in ever day life. Cool.
 

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I think it depends on whether these people know each other, or whether it's a random web hook-up with a stranger.

Either way, it's inappropriate.
 

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If two people got naked in front of each other on webcam and did sexual things/talked about sexual things without informing their significant others, and these two people wanted to keep the incident a secret although it was only for one day..Is it considered cheating?

I'm just curious.
YES! I WOULD CONSIDER THAT CHEATING!!! If someone I was dating did this behind my back, I would break up with that slut if I found out about it.
 
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