So, I've been seeing this girl.It's been REALLY great, things have been easy, but we both recognized that we aren't long-term compatible (she's poly, I'm just not -- but after much deliberation and collaboration, she has decided she wants to enter a mono relationship with me). Today, I got a text from her. In her school's program, they did this "fun" Christmas activity. MBTI was involved. She tested as an ISFJ.I wouldn't say I'm PANICKING, but it made me nervous. I know it shouldn't, I know the responses to this thread that I'm going to get ("all types can be compatible with good communication, blah blah), but my initial reaction was, "nahhh. I don't think you are."But then I gave it some thought.And she might very well be.I feel terrible for making something as marginal as MBTI such a huge deal. I don't think it's going to mess anything up in our relationship, but it sort of planted a seed in my head (remembering my past conflicts with Si doms and auxes). Nevertheless, I told her that I'm going to give her the cognitive functions test when she's in a more "neutral" mindset. Right now with the holidays, she's talking a lot about Christmas trees, traditions, being with family, etc., which doesn't NORMALLY seem to be a focal point of her communication.I told her I thought she may be an IxTP, or even possibly the elusive lady INTJ. She read all the profiles, and said, "I can see any of them, but maybe I'm just reading into it at this point."I also worry that she's going to feel a sense of not being worthy for not being the type I prescribe her. I don't want to do that with her. What I'm saying is, MBTI may ruin this great thing we've got going on.