Hi there. Im an INFJ dating an ISTP. Crazy pair, right? Im emotional, he's too cool for that. Well, this is new ground for me. Ive never dated an ISTP and all the forums and books I have read, he displays the typical behavior of an ISTP. But knowing as much as I now do, I am scared. I dont know what to say concerning feelings because I dont want to seem "airy fairy" as I read the ISTP may percieve an INFJ. So, my question is, are there any other INFJ's on this forum that have dated an ISTP? What has been your experiences? This man has me confused because he doesnt verbalize alot and I only noticed recently he is far more observant than I ever imagined. He takes in everything I say whereas I take in the "emotional vibes" he is sending out. Id like to hear from other ISTP males about how they express themselves.