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Women aren't fucking dogs.

There was a thread on here I was going to respond to but it was closed for further comments. The guy said something like, "I need to make sure she knows I won't be there when she wants," or some shit. As though he was training a fucking dog.

Screw the facts, what decent human beings would do, or open and honest communication. Better to fucking train women like dogs. They do something you like, give them a fucking treat. Otherwise, "Easy girl, easy. Don't go putting none of them fancy ideas in your head."

I'm so fucking sick of the male ego.

Here is how you know if a guy sucks. If the second you attempt to assert your will, they take it as a game or slight to their manhood. Fucking run.

Grrrrrr.
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wuuut did I miss while sleeping. This is why I should never sleep.
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The men who want to train women like dogs should end up with the women who want to train men like dogs. Match made in heaven--away from the rest of us--and then the men and women who think of a partner as something to train can leave the rest uf us the fuck alone lol

But somehow neither of them seem to want each other, because they can tell what a shit place it is to be on the other end of the leash. Then the men who want that make up all kinds of things like "oh no, is't natural for the man to be in the position of authority"--sorry, you probably shouldn't even have a dog, let alone a person to be responsible for.

But I also don't know what thread you're talking about--just talking about sentiment I see spread around the internet sometimes.
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It was something like "I messed up" or something. I just remember the dude said it so casually and no one seemed to notice, but it instantly made me cringe. Like it was important she know he's a man or some shit. So instead of just being honest he had to strategize to give a specific impression. It was from a couple weeks ago.
Yeah there's a lot of cringe stuff from the internet manosphere (the redpill and the pua especially)
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I swear there are a ton of sweethearts guys on here but also plenty who throw out more red flags than a Russian matador at a Chinese new year parade.

Wouldn't want to be near them unless I had both of my guns and a knife.

Whenever I thought someone was playing games or doing shit like in the OP, I noped out of there so fast.

It's what I love about my husband. No gameplaying. No mind games. Just straightforward communication.
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I think the dude who thought women have no real hobbies or interests was the worst. Said we have no agency or fascination with the world and are children who need to be owned by men. Any hobby we do is to get male attention.

Pretty sure he self retired to avoid a ban.
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I think the dude who thought women have no real hobbies or interests was the worst. Said we have no agency or fascination with the world and are children who need to be owned by men. Any hobby we do is to get male attention.

Pretty sure he self retired to avoid a ban.
That's it, I'm joining a convent.
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I think the dude who thought women have no real hobbies or interests was the worst. Said we have no agency or fascination with the world and are children who need to be owned by men. Any hobby we do is to get male attention.

Pretty sure he self retired to avoid a ban.
Sounds kind of like some mgtow sexism--I once watched several of the mgtow sexist videos that used a lot of the same arguments that were used before African Slavery was outlawed in the US--to describe women as inferior to men. According to those videos, the only thing women could do that men couldn't do is lie. And that basically any woman who seemed to be skilled at anything only seemed so because of womens' natural ability to um...lie...or something.

It was extremely stupid, but also showed how people will believe sexism and how much of it circulates on the internet.
I see you you are all angry. Now you know what I do in these situations. I pull out the treats and you all calm down:



Also I want y'all to have healthy teeth.

Note: Interested in seeing if I can facepalm myself.

Edit: No I can't. Can someone do the honours please? @Dalien betting you wish you had kept the angry emoji, hahahaha
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Sounds kind of like some mgtow sexism--I once watched several of the mgtow sexist videos that used a lot of the same arguments that were used before African Slavery was outlawed in the US--to describe women as inferior to men. According to those videos, the only thing women could do that men couldn't do is lie. And that basically any woman who seemed to be skilled at anything only seemed so because of womens' natural ability to um...lie...or something.

It was extremely stupid, but also showed how people will believe sexism and how much of it circulates on the internet.
So they actually thought that men couldn't lie?

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I get it, not all men are like this.

....Some of them are gay.
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That's it, I'm joining a convent.
Go back through here and there's a plethora of the grossest shit


There was one thread where a guy tried to call all women out on their high standards. When asked to clarify, he ignored the questions. Ignored that men often also have high standards, and it became a bash single moms thread.
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I get it, not all men are like this.

....Some of them are gay.
TIL I'm gay
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Just waiting until they show up here

This thread will be like the fucking bat signal.

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Go back through here and there's a plethora of the grossest shit


There was one thread where a guy tried to call all women out on their high standards. When asked to clarify, he ignored the questions. Ignored that men often also have high standards, and it became a bash single moms thread.
Don't even get me started on the single mom thing. The amount of men who were "concerned" that I would only want them because I needed a father for my children....disgusting.

Funny, men think all your problems are due to a lack of a man in your life. Whereas, that's where most of them stem from.
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It's the pill popper community. They have red pills, black pills, blue pills, green pills, yellow pills, purple pills, and soon enough you'll find every colour in the rainbow. They're essentially hypocrites that can initially attract a lot of conservative young men and women until they show their true colours.

Their selling points appear good at first glance. Women should prioritise family over work, citing how career women regret prioritising work over family. They shouldn't hoe around. They should be more agreeable. They should be more realistic. And so on. All good things.

But then they encourage young men to prioritise work over family, even though a lot of older men who prioritised their careers regret it. They tell them to hoe it up. They tell them to be disagreeable. They tell them all to get rich, which is unrealistic. You get the idea.

They highlight everything that is wrong with society today, blame the women who display those qualities with one hand, and encourage young men to develop those same fucked up qualities with the same hand.

The other day I heard some red pill guy say that guys should fuck as many women as possible because a player knows how to raise a family. I spat my coffee out. I couldn't stop laughing. I was a player for a long time. By his logic, I should be an expert. And yet my wife who wasn't experienced in relationships is far better at it than I am. She's 8 years younger than me and I've learned more from her than she has from me.
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Their selling points appear good at first glance. Women should prioritise family over work, citing how career women regret prioritising work over family. They shouldn't hoe around. They should be more agreeable. They should be more realistic. And so on. All good things.
Any group that tells a completely different group what they should do is automatically full of shit and potentially fascist.
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It's the pill popper community. They have red pills, black pills, blue pills, green pills, yellow pills, purple pills, and soon enough you'll find every colour in the rainbow. They're essentially hypocrites that can initially attract a lot of conservative young men and women until they show their true colours.
You forgot the dog pill. Unlike the context of this thread, dog pillers don't believe women are dogs. They just believe women would rather fuck dogs instead of men. Interestingly, although questionable at best, they do have evidence to support this sketchy theory.
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Any group that tells a completely different group what they should do is automatically full of shit and potentially fascist.
Not necessarily. For example this topic is addressed at men, but I'm sure if OP was asked she would agree that there are women who are the same and they should fix up too.
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