Describe a perfect, romantic evening. *No sex talk please.* Keep that to yourself. :tongue:
:ninja: ALL TYPES welcome!
:ninja: ALL TYPES welcome!
OMG!We fly out to Dubai, check into our rooms (yes, separate rooms.. We won't be married yet). She walks in and finds a gorgeous outfit awaiting her.. (handpicked by me).
She gets ready and finds a note left for her, asking for her to meet me at the rooftop.
She takes on step onto the roof, and then I join her for a quiet meal on the roof of a gorgeous luxury hotel (maybe the Burj Al Arab in Dubai), with violinists, a cellist, playing softly.
And then afterward maybe a djembe playing a slow ambient beat, on a song that I will compose for the event. (something similar to this). And during the song (It would start after we have eaten), we dance.
After the dance, we exit the hotel, and find a quiet area at the beach.
We will sit there and talk about our future, as we watch the moon set on the horizon of the ocean.
Once the moon is low, I will serenade her.. And in mid song I will pull out the ring*.
And we will have the proposal on video, because I'll secretly signal both her best friends, and mine.. Because I'll fly them out in a separate plain.
And she'll say yes..
That's my perfect romantic evening!
*The ring will be made to the standards HER bestfriends/sisters tell me, combined with what I know she'd love.. They sisters/best friends would basically just be there to tell me what cut (if I don't know), because I'd rather not talk to MY woman about it.. Because I'd like it to all be a surprise.. Well, as much of a surprise as surprise trip to Dubai can be.
hell no! it's much more special with one of those quiet ones, an ENFP you know has probably had a moment like "_____" before, wheras with an INFP it's likely that they may not have had. besides i always find those kind of moments with platonic ENFPs tend to go by in a flash of excitement and fun, wheras those moments with introverts tend to feel slower and more tender which i prefer.Maybe I need to shift focus from these elusive types and stick with my own kind.
loved your post!! thanks!hell no! it's much more special with one of those quiet ones, an ENFP you know has probably had a moment like "_____" before, wheras with an INFP it's likely that they may not have had. besides i always find those kind of moments with (i CANNOT remember what the word is for "non sexual, purely friendship") ENFPs tend to go by in a flash of excitement and fun, wheras those moments with introverts tend to feel slower and more tender which i prefer.
i honestly think walking along the beach is the most romantic single thing you can do.. for some reason that moment of sexual tension where, for example, you are walking side by side on a date with that weird vibey communication going on is more romantic than a kiss to me (except that the kiss is often the culmination of moments like that...- hmm...) or.. other activities, but that may just be because i'm a guy..
my perfect romantic evening is probably impossible to write down because it would involve spontaneous decisions to do things and go places, and writing anything down would defeat the purpose of that. it could be anything as long as it feels right in the moment.. i will say though that beaches and piers are my favourite places to visit on early dates, but i would prefer say.. an ordinary date for drinks at a pub where we suddenly find out an hour in a band is playing, and there is an abandoned balcony where we can watch, and there is that beautiful still moment when we're just listening (my most memorable date). basically surprises and spontaneity are always my favourite moments on dates.
btw.. this thread has totally ruined studying for me! i just can't wait to get back to uni and start dating again.