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Just popped into my mind, thought I'd share.

"I'm a living thing, you're a living thing, why not merge?"

Maybe you'd like to share one sentence FE explanations too, who knows.
 

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"Everyone's responsible for looking out for each other."

My general approach to things is usually a very intense "I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYOOONNNNEEEE" *clenches fist*

"Concerning yourself with the well being of others."

What you described is not Fe, you described a Dragon Ball Z fusion.
??? All Fe users can successfully do the Fusion Dance. Step up your game.
 

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"Aww.. Is there anything I can do to help you?"
 
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AWWWW you look sooooo CUTE in that sweater, I want to hug you so bad :kitteh:
 

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AWWWW you look sooooo CUTE in that sweater, I want to hug you so bad :kitteh:
It is more like...

Fe user thinks: "That sweater looks so ridiculously bad on her."

Fe user says: "You look marvelous in that sweater. Where did you buy it?"

For me, I wouldn't be able to tell the person their sweater looks bad. If I did that, I would feel bad thereafter.
 

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It is more like...

Fe user thinks: "That sweater looks so ridiculously bad on her."

Fe user says: "You look marvelous in that sweater. Where did you buy it?"

For me, I wouldn't be able to tell the person their sweater looks bad. If I did that, I would feel bad thereafter.
Meanwhile, I would be able to tell them that sweater looks terrible, and here is why. Then I would go about my day.
 
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:shocked:

I should go ahead and leave before I start...

(honestly, I don't understand Fe very much to begin with)
 
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"My goals will align with what is best for whoever is around me/whoever is important to me."

My INFJ would say: "I am most concerned with what will help the people around me (to be happy and find meaning in their lives)"

Also, Xcopy's first post is right. Fe wants to help*. Fe is a constant curiosity to me. :p

*when healthy! Thanks for the reminder, Birbs.
 

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Te, but for value judgements.
 
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Te, but for value judgements.
It is also interesting to note the differences on how a dominant thinker and dominant (or auxiliary) feelers define the same function. Your definition was short, objective and direct, which is quite different from how feelers are defining it.
 

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Aware of and valuing group dynamics and the emotions of others.

(I think it's important not to say "wants to help" necessarily because Fe can be used as a weapon and tool for those who are unhealthy Fe users.)
Why is it unhealthy to weaponize all your best assets? Or even make use of it? Other people never do that? Why should you have to seek the right way to use the function instead of it being "the way"?
 
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