??? All Fe users can successfully do the Fusion Dance. Step up your game."Concerning yourself with the well being of others."
What you described is not Fe, you described a Dragon Ball Z fusion.
It is more like...AWWWW you look sooooo CUTE in that sweater, I want to hug you so bad :kitteh:
Meanwhile, I would be able to tell them that sweater looks terrible, and here is why. Then I would go about my day.
It is more like...
Fe user thinks: "That sweater looks so ridiculously bad on her."
Fe user says: "You look marvelous in that sweater. Where did you buy it?"
For me, I wouldn't be able to tell the person their sweater looks bad. If I did that, I would feel bad thereafter.
It is also interesting to note the differences on how a dominant thinker and dominant (or auxiliary) feelers define the same function. Your definition was short, objective and direct, which is quite different from how feelers are defining it.Te, but for value judgements.
Why is it unhealthy to weaponize all your best assets? Or even make use of it? Other people never do that? Why should you have to seek the right way to use the function instead of it being "the way"?Aware of and valuing group dynamics and the emotions of others.
(I think it's important not to say "wants to help" necessarily because Fe can be used as a weapon and tool for those who are unhealthy Fe users.)