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OK so im 32, and My wife is really starting to criticize my behavior...
Im messy.
I cant get off my computer, my research is borderline obsessive, and it takes away from sleep...
Ive no real apparent feeling side, tho things can get me emotional, but it must come from a pure source.
I sweat and am jittery from absorbing too much information at one time..
I think about things she thinks are different or weird..
Im frustrated when people do things I find pointless.
I get mad when things I know are true and real are not easily understood by others, then when asked to back up my data, I say I cant, its intuition...
She doesnt understand why I dont want to do anything with her, her family or her friends, EVER. and they are good people..
She is an ENFJ
Im not saying sympathize with me, but maybe if enough of you can relate, she will see a pattern...
Im desperate guys my relationship with her is so important, but she acts like I have a medical condition and I feel like I am in the twilight zone.
Can you guys respond as if it were to her, maybe letting her know Im not the only one.
Im not looking for sympathy or an excuse to continue doing things the way I want, and I know somethings I can change, but I think she feels that something is wrong with me, I told her its just who I am.. I was an extrovert at the beginning of our relationship, something changed when I accepted my way of thinking..
Please guys, I dont know what else to do. Her name is Shawn, again, she is an ENFJ
thanks for any insight you could provide her with, I want to show her this thread once I get some replies.
Im messy.
I cant get off my computer, my research is borderline obsessive, and it takes away from sleep...
Ive no real apparent feeling side, tho things can get me emotional, but it must come from a pure source.
I sweat and am jittery from absorbing too much information at one time..
I think about things she thinks are different or weird..
Im frustrated when people do things I find pointless.
I get mad when things I know are true and real are not easily understood by others, then when asked to back up my data, I say I cant, its intuition...
She doesnt understand why I dont want to do anything with her, her family or her friends, EVER. and they are good people..
She is an ENFJ
Im not saying sympathize with me, but maybe if enough of you can relate, she will see a pattern...
Im desperate guys my relationship with her is so important, but she acts like I have a medical condition and I feel like I am in the twilight zone.
Can you guys respond as if it were to her, maybe letting her know Im not the only one.
Im not looking for sympathy or an excuse to continue doing things the way I want, and I know somethings I can change, but I think she feels that something is wrong with me, I told her its just who I am.. I was an extrovert at the beginning of our relationship, something changed when I accepted my way of thinking..
Please guys, I dont know what else to do. Her name is Shawn, again, she is an ENFJ
thanks for any insight you could provide her with, I want to show her this thread once I get some replies.